When you are on dating apps, you are being seen by a large population of men.

Men are the majority population on dating apps.

To this end, as a conventionally attractive woman, you are destined to receive a lot of likes.

The hard time you are having is not so much about whether you are receiving likes, but more so about how poorly the matches you have made have turned out.

Statistically women on dating apps swipe left 90% to 95% of the time and swipe right 5% to 10% of the time.

Since you are a conventionally attractive woman, it’s likely you are on the extremes on either end of these statistics, as you are bound to be that much more picky.

The very few men you choose to match with on dating apps are also getting the bulk of attention from the other women.

Thanks to this abundance, he will have no problem matching with you, pretending that he is looking for a serious relationship, only to end up sleeping with you and ditching you once he is done with you.

This might sound familiar to you.

Even if you have never gotten as far as sleeping with these men, you have still had experiences where these men pretend to be interested in you at the beginning, but the moment you choose not to come over to their place for sex, they ghost you.

All of this has led to you having an impossibly hard time on dating apps, making you question why you are getting this kind of treatment.

You are clearly on dating apps to find a serious relationship.

The truth is, regardless of what he says on his profile in regard to a mutual desire to find a serious relationship, he usually isn’t being sincere.

The lion’s share of these highly attractive, socially adept, and financially successful men on dating apps are primarily looking to hook up with all these women who show them so much attention.

Despite being a conventionally attractive woman, this doesn’t preclude you from being seen as an opportunity for sex and nothing more.

There are other conventionally attractive women who match with these men too.

Several of them give into sleeping with these men too soon.

Whenever this happens, he is further emboldened to keep doing it, considering how he keeps getting away with it.

When you match with this guy, he is of the same mindset about you too.

He thinks you will be like all the other conventionally attractive women he has tricked into sleeping with him too prematurely, under the guise of wanting a serious relationship in the foreseeable future.

Oftentimes, these women are strung along for months on end as he uses her to get his intimate desires met.

You aren’t the only conventionally attractive woman who is having a hard time on dating apps, given that you are all similarly drawn to these highly attractive men.

Without adjusting or easing your standards, you are bound to keep having a hard time on dating apps.