
Regardless of how excited she seemed when you asked her out on a date, she ghosted you because she was waiting for a spark that never happened.
She was excited, as she thought you physically attractive, and this fomented an anticipation that a spark would unfold with subsequent conversations.
Her ultimate goal was to develop both a physical and emotional attraction towards you before the day of the date.
At this early stage, you were halfway there with her.
The physical attraction was there, but the emotional component of a spark was missing.
She expected this spark to appear in subsequent conversations with you.
In subsequent conversations you had with her after setting up the date, she waited to see whether she would feel that emotional spark.
The conversations with you were pleasant and fun, but the spark remained missing.
As the day of the date got closer, her concern at the lack of a spark grew.
Although her conversations with you had been fun, she hadn’t felt any emotional butterflies yet.
She knows what it’s like to feel a spark with someone where she becomes host to a bevy of pleasurable feelings within her being.
In the past, when she felt a spark with a romantic prospect, a number of things would happen.
She would go to bed and wake up thinking about him.
Throughout her day, her thoughts would constantly go back to the last conversation she had with him and how good he made her feel.
Whether she was busy at work or running errands about town, there would be several moments where she thought of him and smiled from ear to ear.
Every time she would receive a text message from him, her lips puckered and her heartrate soared in anticipation of what he had to say.
Basically, whenever she has felt a romantic spark with a guy, she has gone through a riot of exciting and confounding emotions.
Not only are her emotions brimming, she is sexually intrigued by him as well.
She has already fantasized about what it would be like to kiss his luscious lips.
All of this brings us back to you.
In the conversations she had with you on the days leading up to the date, she never had this experience.
Her emotions remained stable with nary a fluctuation, her heartbeat stayed normal with nary an elevation, and her thoughts were devoid of you.
Sadly, she was never inspired emotionally.
Although she deems you physically attractive, the lack of an emotional spark is glaring.
With each day this glaring absence made her feel less motivated to go on the date.
Yet, she felt the need to give it as much time as she could to ensure that this spark was unlikely to ever happen.
This is why she waited until the day of the date.
Unfortunately, her last conversation with you never triggered the spark she so desperately wanted, and this led to you getting ghosted by her.
Women usually fear confrontation and aggression whenever they decide to cancel a date on a guy, compelling them to choose the safer and easier route by ghosting him.
