The guys who are older than you have a knowledge, maturity, financial wherewithal, and an understanding of women, thanks to their dating experience, that the guys your own age mostly don’t have.

As a woman, you are biologically predisposed to want to date someone who has a lot to offer.

So far, an older guy has had much more to offer you in dating than guys your own age.

All of this makes you feel physically, emotionally, and financially safe, which are all necessary for you to be wholly attracted to a guy.

The guys your own age that you have come across so far in life haven’t given you these levels of safety.

Notwithstanding, you have felt it with guys who are older than you by as much as five or more years.

These are men who have the qualities that instantly make you feel physically, emotionally, and financially safe.

It is a biological instinct within you.

The desire to be safe in all those aspects is an innate biological instinct that speaks to a survival instinct.

With such a man, you can let your emotional guard down, feel physically protected, and know that his finances will assure your survival and that of any future offspring.

Additionally, being an older guy, he already has a significant amount of experience dating women.

He knows what to say to make you laugh and feel good.

He has a good understanding of how you think.

Unlike the guys your age, you don’t have to spell everything out.

As an older guy, he has more experience with women.

He isn’t constantly making mistakes and turning you off.

On top of that, he takes you out on proper dates, such as to restaurants, opera houses, comedy shows, high-end lounges, etc.

He takes care of the bill without breaking a sweat.

When he takes you back to his place, you are impressed.

First of all, he has his own place, unlike the guys your own age who typically have roommates.

Usually, when you walk into an apartment of a guy your own age, you are walking through a pigsty of open beer cans and pizza boxes, with several of his roommates lounging around playing video games.

Navigating to the bathroom is akin to wading through a warzone, and the bathroom itself is nothing short of disgusting.

Not so with the guy who is older than you.

His place is immaculate and organized.

You can eat food off of the floor; it’s so clean.

In your experience, there is nothing like dating an older guy.

That is why you are attracted to them and struggle to date guys your own age.

If you really want to date guys your own age, you have to find the ones who make you feel physically, emotionally, and financially safe.

He would have to give you the kind of benefits that the older guy does.

This is rare but not impossible to find.

Usually you can find these types of young men in the same spaces where these older guys congregate.

They are in the minority in these spaces, but they still exist in them.

These are young guys who are already ambitious and have taken massive steps to achieve financial success in life.

Being that they put themselves in the same spaces the older guys do, they gain invaluable knowledge in every area of life from how to be successful in business to how to understand and treat women.

These are spaces such as business conventions, country clubs, upscale bars, and high-end lounges.

When you go to these locations, keep a watchful eye out for these younger guys.

Again, they are in the minority in these spaces, but they do exist within them.