All your life, you have never required an intoxicant to set you at ease and get you to relax.

There are several things that do that for you, whether it be a spa treatment, a phenomenal bubble bath, enjoying your favorite beverage, watching your favorite reality TV show, etc.

That’s you.

But dating isn’t a solo activity.

There is the other person.

In your particular case, this is someone who does something totally different to put himself at ease and relax.

He smokes weed.

This is a first for you.

You have never dated someone who smokes weed.

Keep in mind, he isn’t the only one who will be smoking weed around you.

Usually, he has other friends who smoke weed too.

Whenever there is a hangout at his place over the weekend and he has his friends over, you will also have to contend with them.

A living room completely besieged with the smoke of weed pluming out of the noses of him and several of his friends.

Furthermore, if you are sensitive to smells that are smoke-related, you are burdened with having to handle the constant smell of weed, whether it be on his clothes, inside his car, or in his apartment.

To make things worse, too much consumption of weed has been known to affect libido.

Yes, if he lights a few before bed, he will struggle to perform.

Chronic use of weed is known to cause erectile dysfunction, reduced libido, and difficulty reaching an orgasm.

This is going to leave you constantly disappointed in the bedroom.

Additionally, a chronic weed smoker suffers from poor lungs.

Cannabis smoking irritates the lungs, causing wheezing, chronic bronchitis, increased mucus, damaged cell linings, and continuous coughing.

It may result in air trapping and overinflated lungs, which could impair the lungs’ capacity to take in oxygen.

If you are someone who loves doing outdoor activities, dating someone like this would be an impediment to that lifestyle.

Basically, he won’t have the lung capacity to keep up with you.

So, if you love dancing, hiking, cycling, swimming, playing tennis or pickleball, traveling, etc., he won’t have the stamina to keep up with you.

His lungs simply won’t have what it takes.

A chronic weed smoker wants to smoke weed every chance they get.

Usually, doing other activities takes a backseat.

Since you aren’t a weed smoker, you are bound to become frustrated when you are spending yet another weekend sitting on his couch as he rolls up his umpteenth blunt and you are bored to tears.

You are stuck sitting there, watching the smoke plume all over the living room, as he eases himself through the intoxicating effects of weed.

Keep in mind that people who smoke weed usually drink alcohol or smoke tobacco beforehand.

This is a precursor that often enhances the effect of weed smoking when it occurs.

You see, even before he starts smoking weed, he might already be under the influence of a different substance such as alcohol or tobacco.

This makes sustaining substantial conversations with him nigh impossible.

All of this sounds like dating someone who smokes weed is all doom and gloom.

Moderation is key.

The occasional weekend of weed smoking isn’t a red flag, especially if he only does it from time to time as he is socializing with friends.

This means he is a casual smoker.

Meaning, he isn’t dependent on weed to ease his nerves or get him to relax.

This is someone who has the stamina to regularly take you out on dates and participate in all sorts of activities you love.