A woman who isn’t fully attracted to you won’t be impressed by an expensive date.

Plenty of men erroneously think that by taking women out on expensive dates, it gets them closer to sleeping with her or making her their girlfriend.

That isn’t how it works.

Women are human beings who require certain triggers to be fully attracted to a man.

At first, she is attracted to your physical looks.

Once that is established, she is won over by your personality.

A personality that charms and seduces her.

A personality that makes her craving more of you.

Establishing a seductive and intimate relationship with her mind is how a woman becomes fully attracted to you.

Without the physical looks and the personality to match, taking her on a thousand expensive dates won’t impress her.

A date to an expensive restaurant puts delicious gourmet food before her that fills her hungry belly.

A date at an expensive opera house gives her an entertaining experience.

That’s about it.

If you think that taking women to expensive dates actually impresses them to such a level that you get to sleep with them or get a relationship out of it, think again.

There are no shortages of women who have been on expensive dates who never ended up sleeping with the guy or making him a boyfriend.

Some women go to these expensive dates already knowing that they aren’t into the guy.

Meaning, she won’t go home with you at the end of the night or fall for you.

At the least, you hear a “Thank you.”

At the most, you receive a warm hug.

Either way, she either chooses to go out on a few more expensive dates with you with no intention of going any further than that, or you never hear from her again.

There are women who genuinely go to these dates because they are interested in the guy.

This means you have passed the first hurdle.

You are physically appealing to her.

But you are only halfway there.

You still need to win her over with your personality.

Without doing this, you are someone she sees as physically attractive, but you didn’t do enough to get her mentally and emotionally stimulated.

Without this stimulation, your looks alone won’t be enough for her to be fully attracted to you.

Women fall for what they see and perceive.

What they perceive is a twofer.

How they feel about your energy and how they feel about what you say.

All of this works in unison.

An expensive date has nothing to do with any of this.

There are plenty of men who have had inexpensive or completely free dates with women by taking them on a walk in a park or for an ice cream that have ended up sleeping with these women or becoming their boyfriends.

He didn’t have to spend all of his last paycheck on an expensive date to impress her.

All he needed was looks and personality.

Where this is lacking, expensive dates won’t make up for it by being your trump card.

You must put in the work into improving your looks and personality to genuinely impress a woman so as to make her fully attracted to you.