There is a reason why you aren’t attracted to nice guys.
No matter how much you have attempted to make yourself be attracted to a nice guy, it has failed.
He checked all the proverbial boxes in what a woman would want in a partner.
He was kind, sweet, supportive, caring, and respectful towards you.
Yet, you were incapable of developing a physical attraction for him.
This experience isn’t unique.
You don’t have to feel guilty when you keep realizing that regardless of how much you want to like a nice guy, the attraction is perennially absent.
Nice guys are naturally agreeable.
He wants to make you happy, and as a result, he doesn’t want to ruffle any feathers.
Basically, he doesn’t want to create any tension.
This means that he doesn’t have boundaries, which makes it hard for you not to take advantage of his compliance.
As a woman, you are naturally wired to test a man to see whether he has strong masculine traits.
Since nice guys want to be agreeable, it makes you perceive them as weak.
A weak man is an attraction killer.
You will struggle to develop attraction for a man you perceive as weak and you can walk all over.
For the longest time, women have gravitated towards the hunter in the tribe.
This was the man who risked his life to hunt and bring back slain animals for food among the tribe.
He was the epitome of masculinity, with traits such as courage, strength, ambition, and power.
Even though humanity has evolved since the cave days, our biological instincts haven’t changed.
Women still gravitate towards men who demonstrate ultra masculinity.
This is a reason why bad boys or players attract so many women.
These are men who exude ultra masculinity without apology.
This means that not all of his traits are exemplary.
As an ultra-masculine man, he can be abrasive in how he handles a woman, yet most women are still attracted to him because his masculine traits speak to their biological imperative.
Think about the men you have been attracted to in the past.
These were ultra-masculine men.
Men who didn’t have the sensitivity or respectfulness that nice guys have shown you but made up for it with their super masculine traits.
You are in the company of the majority of women who are also naturally attracted to these men.
After all, no matter how civilized we think we are as human beings, we remain animals.
We instinctively react to what biologically triggers us.
In your case, it’s ultra-masculine men.
It doesn’t do you any good to worry about whether you are wrong for not dating nice guys.
Forcing yourself to date nice guys would only result in you remaining unattracted to them as you waste both their time and yours.
Rather, seek out men with masculine traits coupled with other positive traits such as respectfulness and faithfulness.
These men exist, but they aren’t the partying type.
Usually, this is a man working towards a brighter future by climbing up the corporate ladder or blazing his own trail through entrepreneurship.
This means that instead of being at a nightclub on a Friday night, he is taking an evening class or attending a business function to further increase his chances of being successful in the future.