Although you want to hear from him more, it isn’t unusual that he communicates less in a relationship with you.

Unlike women, guys aren’t as stimulated by communication, especially when it is constant throughout the day.

It’s vital you realize that he isn’t one of your girlfriends.

It’s natural for you to go back and forth, communicating with your closest girlfriends throughout the day, but you mustn’t think the same of a boyfriend.

As a guy, he isn’t as stimulated by constant communication as you are.

He is the same with his friends.

This is in his nature as a guy.

He isn’t going back and forth communicating with his friends throughout the day like you do with yours.

On the contrary, he is perfectly content with sending you a quick good morning text and going about his day without you hearing from him again for hours.

It isn’t personal.

Yes, there is less communication from him than when he was courting you.

Nonetheless, that is understandable.

When he was courting you, he was getting to know you and building a romantic connection.

Now that a romantic connection has been firmly established and you are in a serious relationship with him, he doesn’t have to expend as much time communicating with you.

He knows you much better than he did when he was courting you now that you are his girlfriend.

At this stage, he is confident in his relationship with you, and communication has lessened as a consequence.

It has nothing to do with a drop in his interest in you.

It has everything to do with his male nature.

Being that men are the ones who chase women, the pressure is on them to pursue.

Since he has to initiate communication with women he is interested in, he is doing a lot of the initial work to build a romantic connection with her.

That requires a significant amount of communication.

Once that romantic connection is established, and he is rewarded with a committed long-term relationship by the girl, he rests, regressing back to his true disposition.

He eases off of the pedal and breathes.

His love and interest in you hasn’t waned in any way.

He is merely easing off from the pressure that he had to deal with as the aggressor in pursuit of a relationship with a girl.

Although you have noticed that communication from him has lessened, there is nothing to panic about.

He is the lion that is now resting after an aggressive hunt.

Since you are usually on the receiving end when it comes to courtship, you never have the pressure of having to be the aggressor in pursuit of a love interest.

Without this pressure, you get used to hearing from a male pursuer on a frequent basis when he is courting you.

That’s why it’s so palpable when communication lessens after a pursuer has conquered his prey and is rewarded with a relationship by said prey.

This said, it isn’t wrong to want more communication from a boyfriend.

Men aren’t adverse to elevating the amount of communication when a significant other wants it.

Instead of expecting him to be constantly communicating with you throughout the day, as you do with your girlfriends, it’s more practical to set a time with him to communicate with you.

Guys are logical and analytical in how they think.

If you set an arrangement with him to communicate with you at a certain time during the day, such as his lunchtime, he is far more inclined to doing it and sticking with it.

Rather than expecting him to communicate with you as consistently throughout the day as you do with your girlfriends, set a time with him to communicate and acclimate yourself to that arrangement.