A woman expects to date a man who is financially stable.

A man she knows is capable of taking care of himself financially, and her.

There isn’t all that much of a motivation for a woman to date a man who doesn’t have money.

It doesn’t mean that you have to be rich.

Nonetheless, having money is critical.

A girl who chooses to date you, a guy who doesn’t have money, won’t want to date you for too long if she is the one who is constantly footing the bill.

She chose to date you in the first place on account of your good looks, charm, and confidence.

This wears thin when she is the one who is constantly paying for dates, driving you around, buying you clothes, paying your phone bill, buying you gifts, etc.

That open-mindedness inevitably wears out when she sees the dent you are putting in her bank account.

This means that you haven’t actually lucked out in finding one of a very few number of girls prepared to date a man who doesn’t have money.

Your good looks, charm, and confidence only gets you so far with a girl like this.

Not having money ultimately catches up to you.

No matter how open-minded she was to the idea of you not having money, that doesn’t last.

There brews an expectation within her that you find a stable job.

She wants you to bring money into the union in due time.

Whether it be sooner or later, this expectation is a given.

Therefore, if you are fortunate enough to meet a woman that is open-minded enough to date you when you don’t have money, don’t get comfortable.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that she is totally fine with you not having money, and that she is all about loving you for you.

All of that wears thin after a while.

No amount of good looks, charm, and confidence changes the reality that you are becoming a financial burden to her.

In due time, she is asking you about money and what you are doing to make said money.

The longer you stay in a state of financial insolvency, the deeper her resentment of you.

Soon, she is brazenly putting you down, questioning your masculinity on account of your inability to financially provide.

Not long after this, she summarily dumps you, ready to move on to the next chapter of her life without you in it.

Needless to say, if you are fortunate enough to meet a girl who is open-minded enough to date you when you don’t have money, you mustn’t see this as your ticket to an easy life.

The sooner you find a stable job and become a contributing member of the relationship with the finances, the lesser the risk she grows to resent you and dumps you as a consequence.

All in all, it’s better to have money before dating.

When you already have money, you widen the pool of women who want to date you exponentially.