If you are finding it challenging to move your dating relationship with this guy into a serious relationship, you should try asking him what he wants out of your relationship with him.
It is important to have an idea of what his intentions are and where his head is.
People often get worried when they are in this situation.
They worry that by asking him what he wants, they would be acting too pushy or even needy.
That isn’t true.
If you have been dating this guy for a while and perhaps it has been months since you began this kind of relationship, you do need to know what his intentions are.
You may often wonder whether you are already in a serious relationship with him because it does feel that way sometimes.
However, at other times, it seems like he looks at you as simply someone he is dating.
This makes you conflicted and confused. But, you don’t need to stay in this state of confusion.
If you have been dating him over the course of the last few months, it wouldn’t be odd if you were to ask him about his intentions and what he wants out of the relationship.
This is where you can do some real talk with him.
This is where you can find out where his head is at and whether he is actually looking to get serious with this relationship.
If he doesn’t give you a definitive answer, there is a good chance that he wants to keep the relationship that you have with him in the dating stage.
This is when you will really have to reevaluate your relationship with him.
If you want something more serious, you may be better off moving on and not wasting your time with him.
If his answer is ambiguous, he is most likely not taking your relationship with him seriously and it is unlikely that you will move from dating to a relationship.
You don’t want to fall into the trap of staying in a dating relationship that you hope will get serious in the future only to find yourself waiting indefinitely.
When you wait like this, you will often end up being cast aside for that special someone that he actually wants to have a relationship with.
The point here is that, after several months of dating, a guy is going to know whether he wants to move the dating into a real relationship.
He will know if you are the girl that he wants to be with over the long-term.
If he can’t give you that as a straight answer, he is most likely not going to move the dating into a relationship now or at any point in the future.
You also have to understand how the dating process works.
If he has felt that he has been doing most if not all of the initiating in this dating process, he may want you to start trying to do more.
He may need to see this kind of proactive attempt on your part before he believes that he has something with you that would warrant getting serious about.
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