Trying to seem more experienced with guys and dating makes you act unnaturally.
You behave in a peculiar way in order to give off an impression that isn’t real.
You can take this too far.
Sooner or later, these guys sense that it is all an act.
As a result, they lose interest or feel tricked and move on.
You have to avoid putting yourself in this position.
It does the opposite of what you are hoping for.
If you want to make yourself seem more experienced with guys and dating so as to impress a guy, you don’t have to.
Your main objective should be to let the guy experience who you are as a person.
Most guys don’t fall for the girl who seems to be more experienced with guys and dating.
They fall for the girl who they feel has the best emotional and physical connection to them.
They fall in love with how she smiles and moves her body as she speaks to them.
How she laughs and makes self-deprecating jokes.
Her quirkiness and strange humor.
How much they have in common with the girl.
The level of comfort they have around her, which helps in making conversation with her feel natural.
They fall in love for a number of reasons.
Most guys aren’t sitting around hoping to meet a girl who is more experienced with guys and dating above all else.
This is not at the forefront of their minds.
They are concerned with how they get along in conversation and what they have in common with the girl.
As well as, whether the girl takes care of herself physically and there is physical chemistry between them.
These are the questions in the forefront of a guy’s mind when he is looking to date or talk to a girl romantically.
Present your true and genuine self.
This should be your concern as opposed to trying to seem more experienced with guys and dating.
Your personality is what wins a guy over for the long term.
Be as natural as you can when you are with a guy and getting to know him.
Don’t fixate on your deficiencies or inexperience.
If you were to continue telling him that you have little experience with guys or dating, you run the risk of making him worry that you have no belief or confidence in yourself.
Being that you keep fixating on something that you believe you don’t have, you are doing yourself a disservice.
He wants to hear about what you believe you have.
This gives him an idea about what makes you so unique.
Give him that.
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