The rejection wasn’t without reason.
She had a reason for telling you that she wants to stop talking.
It was something you said or did recently.
You were having a conversation with her that took a different turn, exposing a side to you she didn’t like.
You weren’t aware when the switch occurred, but it did.
She heard something that turned her off and she didn’t tell you about it at the time.
She didn’t want to put you on the spot.
She doesn’t feel obligated to tell you when she senses something is off.
This indicates she doesn’t care too much for the relationship.
She isn’t as emotionally involved.
This is where you will have to start assessing your own emotions and intentions.
If you are feeling a lot more for this girl than she has been giving in return, slow down and temper those emotions.
The danger of falling too fast is in her not feeling likewise.
You got so carried away with how you felt about her, you never gave her a chance to show you who she was.
Look back at your actions to date.
Is there a pattern?
You were showing signs of clinginess or a craving for more than what she was ready to give.
You addressed her in a manner that made it sound like you were already looking at her as your partner, getting ahead of the natural pace of the relationship.
You weren’t aware of what you were doing, caught up in the moment.
This behavior can be a turn off to a girl, compelling her to stop talking to you.
There was a reason for this.
I have just described a scenario where you were the catalyst for all of this.
There is alternate scenario.
She isn’t single.
She is talking to or seeing another guy that she never told you about.
Many a time, a girl talks to new guys while she is in a relationship, looking to end that relationship and get into a new one.
She doesn’t want to end the relationship without another prospect lined up.
With this motivation, she talks to a variety of guys with the intent of learning whether any one of them is the best candidate for a new relationship.
She could do this with one guy or several guys at the same time.
When you aren’t giving her the right kind of spark, she lets you go, not wanting to talk to you anymore.
She doesn’t have the time to discover whether there could be something more.
She wants to find a new guy to transition with, without having to waste too much time.
You weren’t that guy.
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