Does She Like Me More Than A Friend?

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Does She Like Me More Than A Friend?

When she likes you more than a friend, she will want to spend a lot of time with you.

These may be times that she has something else planned but she would rather spend that time with you.

However, there are some differences you need to understand.

There is a difference between wanting to spend a lot of time with you as friend and wanting to spend a lot of time with you as a potential love interest.

When she wants to spend more time with you as a friend, she may typically want to have other friends around.

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She may invite you to do things with her that involves other people.

She may also want to do things with you that are very safe and monotonous.

She really wouldn’t be willing to go the extra mile and try something completely out of what she normally does.

Hence, she may ask you to go to the movies with her or go shopping.

Again, all activities that are very safe and humdrum.

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She may also use you to help fill in the blank.

For example, if she were to need someone to go to a party with, she may contact you.

Being that she doesn’t want to appear like the odd one out or just doesn’t want to feel awkward in this environment, you become the go-to guy.

These are all descriptions of a girl who wants to spend more time with you as a friend.

When a girl wants to spend more time with you because to her you are someone of romantic interest, she will have no problem doing whatever you wanted to do.

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In other words, instead of sticking with the same old humdrum activities, she will be open to whatever you suggest doing.

Even if what you suggested is something that she normally detests doing, she will do it anyway just so that she appeases you.

The way she reacts to these activities can also tell you whether she likes you more than a friend.

Her reaction is key.

For example, if you were to take her to do something that she normally has done in the past and is mundane to her but she reacted with excitement and enthusiasm, she likes you more than a friend.

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In other words, something as mundane to her as going to the movies may be completely blown out of proportion.

She would tell you how amazing the experience was even though she has done it a hundred times before with friends.

She would tell her friends about how wonderful the date was too.

Again, these are activities that she has engaged in hundreds of times in the past, but now, all of a sudden, the event is so much better because of you.

You didn’t necessarily do anything special during the date but in her mind you did.

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That’s because she likes you more than just a friend and is allowing her emotions to take control of her reasoning.

These are all cues to help you tell if she likes you more than just a friend.

You should ensure that you take action when you observe these behaviors.

She may be trying to let you know that she likes you more than a friend but if you wait for too long to act, she may eventually lose hope and consequently lose interest.

010By Luke Iwuji, a dating coach and founder of DatingLogic.net. For the best professional dating or relationship advice, Book a Session with me.