It is not necessarily a turn off to girls if a guy has had a lot of experience with girls.
However, the guy shouldn’t make the mistake of constantly reminding her about it by either continuously flirting with other girls or talking to them while in the process of talking to her.
This is where the turn off can occur.
A girl will not necessarily be turned off if the guy that she is talking to romantically has had a lot of experience with girls, as long as he isn’t disrespectful of her.
This is where guys who have had a lot of experience with girls often make the mistake.
They think that by sending constant texts to so many of these girls that they now have as “friends” and to do so in the presence of this particular girl that they are talking to, is okay.
They think that looking flirtatiously at other girls while they are in public with this particular girl that they are talking to, is okay.
They think that constantly hanging out socially with these girls, even if it is within the neutral safety net of a group of friends, without the current girl that they are talking to present, is okay.
They think that constantly referencing one girl or another during conversation with the girl that they are talking to romantically, is okay.
The problem is rarely that the guy has had a lot of experience with girls.
The problem is normally that the guy thinks that he can continue behaving like he has always done with these other girls, even now that he is talking to this particular girl on a serious level.
This is where the turn off for girls occurs.
The guy just thinks that it is okay to behave this way because, in his eyes, these other girls are merely “friends.”
However, if you are seriously talking to a girl that you hope to date at some point, you shouldn’t think that it is okay to maintain this kind of behavior.
This is not what the girl wants to see from you.
Regardless of how harmless you believe that your interactions with all these other girls who are your supposed “friends” or acquaintances may be, this girl that you are talking to is reading your behavior totally different.
Again, she looks at this behavior as disrespectful to her.
It makes her feel like she is not all that important to you and that she is easily dispensable.
No girl that you are talking to on a serious romantic level wants to feel this way.
She wants to feel special.
She wants to feel like she is the only one who has captured your heart and attention.
If a guy who has had lots of experiences with girls chooses to continue behaving as though those girls are a very important part of his life, he will make the girl that he is talking to romantically feel like she has to share him.
No girl wants to feel this way.
She wants to feel like she is the only one in the world for you.
She also wants to feel like the guy is the only one in the world for her.
This is what makes him special to her.
If you want to succeed in getting this girl to date you, you should avoid interacting with all these other girls as much as possible.
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