You have to understand that your job is not to make him feel loved.
That is a very dangerous task.
If he has emotional or psychological issues, no amount of effort on your part is going to help him.
This is a problem that is innately within him.
Walking away from the guy you love can be done when you allow yourself to truly let go of him.
The most difficult aspect of this for people is the “letting go” part.
You have absolutely got to be willing to let go and that all begins in your mind.
You will need to train your mind to let go of him.
There is no path to success without this. If you are not willing to do this, you may encounter a lot of frustration.
Your focus should not be on how to stop loving or caring for this person. That manner of thinking will only make you feel worse and deepen the feelings that you are actually trying to get rid of.
The truth is, we cannot just stop loving or caring for someone instantaneously. We are not robots. This isn’t how we are built.
If you feel like saying the “L” word, say it.
There is no preordained time to say, “I love you.”
If you think that there is, you may lead yourself astray.
So often, couples will wait to say the “L” word.
If you used to always stress about guys but now, you’re in love, you should understand that your emotions need to be kept in check.
Those who typically stress about guys are the ones who tend to fall prey to a guy who knows how to sweet talk.
There are guys who are really good at this.
You should only consider changing religions or becoming involved in a religion for someone you love if you truly have a genuine interest in that religion.
You shouldn’t change religions or become involved in it simply because you are trying to appease the one you love or trying to look good in their eyes.
You should be sincere about your intention and be sure that it is something you truly believe.
If you truly see and feel the value in the religion and genuinely believe that the religion will have a positive effect in your life, then and only then should you make this change.
You should ask yourself why you would want to get back with your first love.
You have found it hard to forget them, but why? There is always a reason why this need comes up in one’s life.
Are you at a point in your life where you feel lonely, inadequate or insecure?
Have you had a history of failed relationships? Are you currently agitated and frustrated at those relationship failures?
You will find love, settle down and have a family when you allow yourself to become who you truly can and should be.
When you are always thinking about your lack of love, you become negative. You become so consumed with the lack of love in your life that you may start losing a sense of who you truly are as a person. You may not even realize that you are doing this.
You will stop looking people in the eye or you may start falling into bad relationships simply because you become desperate.
You may be missing your boyfriend so much because you are becoming emotionally attached to him.
Your feelings do get stronger over time.
This happens especially if you are in a close relationship where you both tend to share almost everything.