If he isn’t jealous, that doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t love you.
He may not be the type of man that gets jealous easily.
He may be more secure with his relationship than most.
Hence, he may simply not start reacting out of jealousy because the girl that he is dating is getting attention from other men.
If he trusts you and is secure within himself, he may just not feel the impulse to get jealous.
This is especially true if you aren’t actively goading these men.
In other words, if you are merely minding your own business when these men are trying to get your attention and not doing anything actively to encourage them to keep doing so, this type of man is not going to get jealous.
Again, he may feel secure enough in himself and the relationship that he just doesn’t feel the need to do this.
This type of behavior doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you.
Oftentimes, you can determine whether a man loves you by how he treats you.
If he is loving and kind to you, there is a realistic chance that he loves you.
If he cares about what you have to say and is willing to listen, there is a realistic chance that he loves you.
If he wants to be around you often and is willing to also get to know the people that are your friends and family of whom you love, there is a realistic chance that he loves you.
Try not to judge whether a man loves you or not based on whether he gets jealous or not whenever you receive attention from men.
If you have actually been a good romantic partner to him so far, he may simply trust you enough that he doesn’t worry whenever men start trying to flirt with you or get your attention.
He would already know that he has nothing to worry about because he knows that you will not be disloyal to him.
Again, if he is already a man who is secure within himself, he will not feel the need to become upset or jealous whenever these men try to get your attention.
He is a confident enough man that getting jealous simply wouldn’t fit his personality.
Try not to fall into the trap of believing that a man needs to be jealous of the attention that you get from other men in order for him to show you that he loves you.
This can be a very dangerous type of expectation.
This mindset could actually trick you into encouraging other men to flirt with you in the hopes that he will react with jealousy.
You may have no interest in these men at all.
You just want to see if the man that you are dating will react with jealousy just so that you can feel better about the question of whether he loves you.
This wouldn’t be wise.
It would only lead to him feeling like you are immature and insecure.
This notion alone could lead him to break up with you.
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