When he isn’t spending quality time with you like he used to, he is not into you anymore.
He gives excuses whenever it is time to do an activity with you.
He sets it up at first, but cancels later on, or conveniently forgets that he had made plans with you.
This behavior is indicative of a guy isn’t prepared to be around you, being that he has various activities that he would rather be spending his time doing.
He doesn’t compliment you as he once did.
This is especially true when he has no trouble with giving other people compliments, but rarely gives you any.
He has no problem complimenting people, including a variety of girls, but when it comes to you, he is less enthusiastic or eager to do the same.
You tell yourself that he doesn’t have to give you compliments, as you have already received enough from him.
In the back of your mind, you know that you feel jealousy and awkwardness.
It doesn’t make sense that he compliments people, but barely compliments you.
This is course for worry and a strong sign that he is not into you anymore.
If he is communicating with you a lot less than he used to, he isn’t into you anymore.
A guy that used to call or text you every day, and has switched to doing so every few days, is demonstrating that he isn’t into you anymore.
When he is not communicating as frequently as he used to, he is showing that he isn’t thinking about you as frequently as he used to during the day.
A guy that is not thinking about you frequently, is thinking about someone else, or something else that has a greater priority than you do.
When he does communicate, the conversations are stale, with him as the focal point.
By doing this, he is showing that he doesn’t care about what you have been up to, or what you want to do.
He is only concerned about himself, and is communicating out of a sense of duty, as opposed to out of a legitimate desire to talk to you.
Now at days, you are the one who initiates the bulk of the conversations, as he puts the onus on you to contact him first, and he puts little effort into keeping the relationship going.
The responsibility to keep the relationship vibrant and alive has been placed on your shoulders.
This means that he isn’t as invested in the relationship as you are.
When he isn’t as invested in the relationship as you are, he has no problem leaving you to do the majority of work in the relationship.
The harder you work to keep the relationship alive and make him happy, the lazier he gets.
Once he becomes complacent in this position, it’s next to impossible for him to take you seriously.
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