What’s The First Thing A Woman Looks For On A Potential Date’s Social Media Profile?

What's The First Thing A Woman Looks For On A Potential Date's Social Media Profile?

Her first concern is that you physically appear as you depict yourself on whatever online platform she met you on, should it be the case that she has never met you in person.

If you matched with her on a dating site for example, the first thing she looks for on your social media is to verify your physical appearance.

As a potential date, the last thing she wants to do is show up on a date only to be disappointed by your physical appearance.

In the event this is a woman who has already met you in real life in some capacity or is fully aware of what you look like, the first thing she looks for on your social media centers around your photos too.

It’s just that instead of primarily focusing on your physical looks, she is focusing on the quality of your photos.

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As in, what you are doing in these photos.

Are you doing activities that captivate her?

A bunch of photos that get her excited about your lifestyle, gives her insight into the type of potential date you are.

Through the quality and diversity of your photos alone, she is capable of deducing whether she stands to have a good time with you upon meeting you on a date.

When you have exciting photos, she is basically getting a preview of what going out on dates with you would be like and the lifestyle that awaits her should she end up dating you long-term.

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Keep in mind that women are in love with taking photos of their own.

Compared to men, women take a lot more photos.

This is evidenced in their social media behavior.

Women are more active on social media than men and are constantly taking photos for their feeds and stories.

There is fierce competition among them to take the most captivating photos.

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Captivating photos provide added popularity on social media, which further increases her online profile.

Almost every moment is one that calls for a photo.

Whether she is wearing a new outfit, eating a gourmet meal at a fancy restaurant, playing a sport, traveling, or hanging out with close friends, there is an opportunity for her to take a photo and post said photo to her social media.

A woman who sees you as a potential date, and looks to your social media, wants to be impressed by your photos.

A close second is how many followers you have and how you interact with them in your stories and comments section.

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Gathering this information gives her a better perspective on your social clout and acumen.

Women are social creatures who feed off of social interaction.

A man who has a solid social circle along with social skills informs her on whether he is a good match for her social personality.

She uses social media to give her a clue as to whether her date with you has the potential to be filled with good conversation or whether she should expect a boring time where she is the one making conversation and keeping it going.

To summarize, the first thing she does with your social media is look at your photos to determine whether she is attracted to your physical looks and lifestyle.

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Followed by a determination of your social acumen, which is verified to an extent by the number of followers you have and how you converse with them in your stories and comments section.