There is a powerful desire from either of these female friends to be the one you choose to be with.

These two females are fully aware of their mutual interest in you.

Becoming victorious in winning you over is a preoccupation that expands the longer you remain indecisive.

There are sure to be moments where you observe the friction this mutual interest they have in you is causing to their friendship.

You are the prize and neither one wants to lose out on winning said prize.

In situations like this, guys often erroneously take too long to make a decision on which female they like and want to court.

He is basking in their adulation.

An adulation that is so addicting.

He loves it when he sees either one of them doing everything in their power to get his attention.

His phone is filled with messages from either of them, doing their due diligence to seduce him.

To be this desired by two females is constant validation, enlightening him on how desirable he is.

When he falls into the trap of wanting to see which one outdoes the other, whether it be in doing favors for him, giving him compliments, liking all his social media posts, giving him gifts, etc., it’s that much harder to choose which one he prefers and be done with it.

By taking too long to decide, he ends up frustrating either woman.

They are exhausted from all their efforts to win him over, and now, that exhaustion has turned into a resentment towards him.

This is where you, as this guy, becomes the enemy.

They are no longer blinded by their passion for you.

Their resentment towards you has led to an unveiling of what they weren’t seeing while they were in the midst of outdoing each other to win you over.

Your hubris and arrogance in allowing them to fight over you, resulting in a strain on their friendship.

The two female friends know that by continuing to socialize with you, the catalyst persists.

A catalyst that is powerful enough to trigger them to fight to win you over all over again in the foreseeable future, creating a further strain on their friendship.

This leads to the two of them losing their romantic interest in you, an end result that bodes poorly for you.

Suffice it to say, choosing which one you like and want to court is imperative.

The longer you wait, the likelier they both end up resenting you and losing interest in you altogether.

Once you make your choice, the one that loses out is sad for a short period of time, but she moves on.

This saves their friendship, and saves you from their resentment.

To pick the right one for you, first consider the type of relationship you want, and then ascertain which one of them best suits it.

Should it be a draw, consider which one of them preoccupies your thoughts with greater frequency.

During the course of your day and when you are about to go to sleep at night, which one of them are you thinking about preeminently?

That’s who you choose.