School is a significant part of our lives.
It only lasts a few years in the general scheme of our lives, but its impact has a profound effect on the rest of our lives.
It is not only about the merits that accompany earning a degree, but the connections you establish with people who are primed to become successful in the careers they pursue after graduating.
All of this being said, you don’t have to finish school before dating.
A social life is critically important while you are in school.
This gives you a break from all the studying, which has an added benefit of getting you refreshed and recharged before having to return to school work.
It’s all about balance.
A healthy balance of school work and a social life is the right combination.
School takes a few years for most people to finish.
Those are years that never come back.
Without taking advantage of all the dating opportunities there are while you are in school, you lose out on acquiring beneficial experience in dating.
There is never a period in your life where you have more access to girls than you do in school.
This is a harsh reality that hits people after they graduate college and enter the grind of working for a living.
A large share of the people you work with in your future career are already in serious relationships or marriages.
Several of the women who aren’t in serious relationships or marriages have children that they are taking care of and providing for.
This is burdensome.
A far cry from all the single childless women you saw in college.
On top of this, even if you are open to the idea of dating one of these women, the extracurricular priorities that pertain to her children make it difficult for her to meet you on dates on a regular basis.
A life after college that is filled with hours at work doesn’t give you all that much time to find girls to date either.
Besides a few bars or nightclubs in town, where you see the same girls every weekend, your social life isn’t all that robust.
Before you know it, you aren’t going out on Friday nights like you once did, choosing instead to stay home and watch your favorite sports channel or play video games.
This becomes your life, with the occasional run-in with an attractive girl you see at a local coffeehouse, delicatessen, bakery, department store, etc.
Dating after school is much tougher than it is while you are in school.
It is certainly doable, if you put out a concerted effort to expand your social circle and reach, but the differences are stark.
Take advantage of your schooling years.
Have a healthy balance of studying and attending social events.
Even though you aren’t financially set, this isn’t an issue.
Everyone knows that college kids are broke.
So do college girls.
She won’t judge you because you can only afford to take her to a generic restaurant on a dinner date.
She is fully aware that you are a college student, and that at this stage in your life, you aren’t exactly drowning in money.
Instead of dwelling on the notion that you are a broke college student, she gives you a pass by seeing the promise in you graduating one day, and the financially rewarding professional career that accompanies it.
Being a man, this is the only period in your life where a girl gives you a pass for being broke.
Take advantage of it.