A guy without a job isn’t a deal breaker to a girl, depending on what stage of life she is in.
A girl that is more about the excitement of hooking up with a guy and having carefree fun isn’t all that concerned that he doesn’t have a job.
This is especially true for women in their teens and early twenties.
At this stage in her life, she likes the idea of dating a guy that is exciting, charming, reckless, and fun to be around.
As long as he is regularly taking you out on dates, and is fully invested in the conversations you have with him during said dates, his interest in you remains strong.
Guys aren’t the best texters.
He was texting you more frequently in the early stages of courtship wanting to use a trusted and universally patronized medium of communication as his vessel to keep you connected to him.
He wanted to stay on your radar as he followed those text messages up with dates on the weekends.
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As a man, your boyfriend knows how men think.
He believes that your single male friends are romantically interested in you.
The truth is, he is right.
Lots of single men who have women as “platonic” friends won’t turn down an opportunity to sleep with said women if offered the chance.
It was wrong that you ghosted him.
Think about the shoe being on the other foot.
No one likes it when they are ghosted.
That said, when you meet a guy that has romantic potential, you mustn’t get lost in how good he makes you feel, or the butterflies he gives you at the start.
A girl that asks to hold hands on a first date is feeling a romantic connection with you.
She is physically and emotionally comfortable enough with you to ask to hold hands.
This is a girl that is quick to express affection physically when she realizes that she is clicking with a guy she is out on a date with.
Think about what her behavior was like leading up to the moment she asked to hold hands with you.
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