There is a reason why your girlfriend is ignoring you.

By coming to this, she is showing abject exasperation.

She has already voiced her unhappiness about whatever it is that has been bothering her, and you haven’t remedied it.

This has finally led her to ignore you.

A few weeks or months have transpired, and the changes she expected from you haven’t occurred, or persisted.

In ignoring you, she wants you to know that your reluctance to fix this concern has become a major problem.

The way you respond to your girlfriend ignoring you is to take her angst seriously.

If you choose to act as though this will pass, you are making a catastrophic error.

Once a girl goes as far as ignoring her boyfriend, she is sending a clear message that she is approaching the end of her rope with whatever it is that is bothering her about her boyfriend.

When you don’t take this seriously, allowing this to persist, something worrisome happens.

She entertains the idea of talking to other guys, several of whom have sent her direct messages in her social media, or are in her friend circle.

It’s not that she is looking to physically cheat on you with them, at least, not right away.

There is an emotional abyss developing within her on account of your reluctance to remedy the matter at hand.

When she is suddenly engaging with the men who are sending her messages on social media, or those in her friend circle, she is opening herself up to getting her emotional requirements met by said men.

She wants their emotional validation, so that the sadness she is feeling within is satiated to an extent.

Once a girl opens herself up emotionally to one or more of the men in her social media or friend circle, it is only a matter of time before that door opens completely, assuming that her boyfriend remains obstinate in remedying whatever the problem is within their relationship.

I say all of this to make it absolutely clear that you can no longer get away with not fixing what has been bothering her.

It must be addressed and remedied.

She is ignoring you for a reason.

She never wanted this to get this far.

After all, women love attention.

Girlfriends want to be acknowledged and talked to by their boyfriends.

It goes against her nature to ignore you as though you aren’t someone special in her life.

When she has gone to these lengths, she is illuminating how critical this is.

What has she repeatedly complained to you about in the last few weeks or months?

That is the issue.

It’s time that you talk to her about it.

That said, talk is cheap.

After coming up with a strategy for how to remedy the matter, that she approves of, take action immediately.

Show her clear signs through action that you are working to fix it.

She has to see this, and see it soon.

This is what calms her nerves, making her believe that you are taking it seriously this time around.

As a result, she is less likely to open the door emotionally, and ever so slightly, to guys who are vying for her attention on social media, at work, in her friend circle, at the gym, etc.

The sooner you fix this, the sooner she stops ignoring you, closing the door to any guy in her social circle who has the ability to fill the emotional rift that was growing within her.