Although you see yourself as unattractive, it doesn’t mean that you are incapable of attracting anyone. Sometimes, a few adjustments you make to how you present yourself changes everything.
Looking more fashionable in how you dress, or keep your hair, as well as having more inviting body language often makes all the difference in attracting someone to you.
This said, there are lots of places for unattractive people to find boyfriends and girlfriends. If the bar, party, and nightclub scene is not what you are comfortable with, joining interest groups around activities you love is an area where you get to meet more people like yourself.
These are people who are already interested in these activities, which makes it so much easier for conversations to happen. Unlike bars, parties, and nightclubs, there isn’t a perception of superficiality.
There isn’t any pressure to be the prettiest or the best conversationalist. Rather, these are a group of people who have come together to participate in an activity of interest without any added expectations.
In situations like these, conversations and relationships develop organically. This opens the door to the possibility of making a connection with someone who ultimately becomes a boyfriend or girlfriend.