Men don’t have anywhere near the amount of dating options women have.

To this effect, most men are just happy to find a girl they think is attractive and make her a girlfriend and future wife.

Many of them have a scarcity mindset.

He takes the first attractive girl that gives him the right amount of attention and wants to lock her down as a long-term partner.

There is a very small percentage of men who are capable of attracting lots of women.

These are the men who have an abundance mindset.

He has a ton of female contacts on his phone and has a bunch of female followers on his social media.

He has women approaching him in real life or showing extremely obvious choosing signals.

A man like this loves having multiple women at his disposal.

He has put several of them in different categories.

There are those he only sees as fun to sleep with and others he actually enjoys hanging out or going on dates with before sleeping with.

This archetype doesn’t want to be in a relationship with one girl.

He loves all of the options he has in girls.

Given that he has all these options, he chooses to live a lifestyle where he is entertaining all these women who are vying for his attention.

This kind of attention is addicting, and extremely difficult to let go of.

The more he is exposed to this much access to women, the more addicted he becomes to it.

One girl alone is ill-equipped to satisfy everything that all these women bring into his life.

It’s impossible.

That said, sometimes, a man with this many dating options decides to settle down.

He decides to lock onto one girl because he is under pressure from family and society to settle down and make a nuclear family with one woman.

Sadly, it doesn’t take long before he gets bored, given that he is so used to getting attention from so many women at once.

He misses it, and before you know it, he is back to his old habits.

He is reconnecting with the women who were previously on his roster before he got serious with you.

He is becoming more active on social media, reconnecting with the women who follow him, and following a new batch of attractive women.

You become frustrated as his partner and voice it.

He promises to do better.

Unfortunately, the addiction is too strong.

Now that these women know that he is trying to reconnect, they go all in.

They are texting and calling him again on his phone, sending DMs on social media, finding him in social venues he frequents to seduce him, etc.

The temptation is so overwhelming, he finally gives in and cheats on you by sleeping with one or more of these women.

This is predictable behavior by men who have had a history of garnering female attention effortlessly.

Where so many women go wrong is when they allow themselves to believe that they are special.

You deceive yourself into thinking that he is going to be faithful to you and permanently cut off all these women, just because you are special like that.

Regrettably, you are not enough.

A man like this is prone to reverting to his old habits, regardless of any promises he made to you to be faithful.

The truth is, if the majority of men had the opportunity to be with multiple women, they would.

Some will eventually try to be with one woman, as family, society, his mortality, and a desire to leave a legacy take precedence over a desire to sleep with as many women as possible.

Nonetheless, the same fate awaits.

An inability for a single woman to meet all of their physical and emotional needs eventually leads said men to cheat on their mate.