Never has he not had a smile to greet you whenever you step into the bar he works at on Friday or Saturday nights to unwind.
On top of this, he knows what you love to drink.
Within seconds of seeing you, he is already preparing it just the way you like it.
When he serves it to you, his dreamy eyes are locked on yours, in tandem with his dazzling smile, and you have suddenly forgotten how much you wanted to wring your boss’s neck that week for overworking you.
Avoidant behavior, where he demonstrates a complete reluctance to be in social situations and avoids emotional closeness, is where the big red flag exists.
Some guys who have 0 friends are constantly afraid of putting themselves in vulnerable situations where they are judged or criticized by people.
Unfortunately, prior to anything socially uncomfortable happening, he is already thinking that everyone is out to take advantage of him, and this compels him to develop a rigid self-defense mentality.
That’s where the complete reluctance to be in social situations and the avoidance of emotional closeness become so apparent.