Sometimes, the weight of expectations ruins a 3rd date.
Having arrived as far as a 3rd date, both parties apply certain expectations to it that weren’t present at the 1st and 2nd date.
Expectations differ depending on what either party aspires to and what their life experiences are.
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Getting to a 3rd date means that the both of you have been getting along and even feel some chemistry.
It wouldn’t be prudent to stop dating him based on running out of things to say.
Conversation is really not that difficult if you put out the effort to get better at it.
Do your due diligence by not getting yourself in a situation where you feel the need to get out of a bad date in the first place.
This means taking the time to vet the guy.
No, this doesn’t mean getting yourself all caught up in a labyrinth of social media accounts and avatar posts that bear his name.
A lot of meaningful conversation before putting out on the first date leaves a lot more to the puzzle of who you are as a person.
Having sex with each other at the conclusion of that first date shouldn’t damper a guy’s enthusiasm to want to learn more about your life and who you are as a person so as to complete the puzzle, as long as he is mentally and emotionally mature.
We no longer live in Victorian times.
It feels like a job after a while.
Questions abound from your end as you make a diligent effort to get to know him better, but the effort isn’t reciprocated.
Patience is a virtue, so you bide your time in the hopes he eventually starts asking you questions about yourself.
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