If this ex used to be your best friend, there were qualities about them that really appealed to you as a person.
The fact that they hurt you badly doesn’t erase your history with them as your best friend.
When you are trying to assess whether you should stay friends with this ex, it is best to look at your relationship with this ex as a whole.
Think back to how your relationship was when this ex was just your best friend and not your partner.
This can be a challenging position to be in.
A boyfriend who is best friends with an ex is someone that most likely loves their ex.
The problem with this kind of love is that it can be very mercurial.
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You may still be hoping that you will get back with your ex.
In essence, you haven’t actually allowed yourself to understand that the relationship is actually over.
As long as you still believe that the relationship isn’t really over and there is a chance that you will get back together with your ex, it will be very difficult for you to move on from your ex.
He may be very lonely right now and is reaching out to you because he wants to quell that loneliness.
Exes often get to points in their lives where they may be out of a relationship.
At some point during their time being single they may start getting lonely.
He is still into his ex when he is still calling her or texting her on a regular basis and he is doing so behind your back.
He is still into his ex when you notice that he can’t help but talk about her on a regular basis.
He may not always be saying nice things about her but the mere fact that he keeps talking about her is normally a very strong sign that he is still into her.