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Luke is an experienced professional dating coach who has provided expert dating and online dating advice to thousands of clients for over a decade.
Relationships

Would You Date Someone Until You Find Someone Better?

Would You Date Someone Until You Find Someone Better?

By developing a mindset that is about dating someone until you find someone better, you run a risk of getting stuck in it.

Meaning, when you reach a point in your life where you believe you are ready to settle down, no one you encounter will be good enough.

That is because you spent years dating guys that you deemed temporary, believing that there would be better men as boyfriends in your future.

Every time you date a new guy and get into a relationship with him, you are already thinking that the relationship won’t last.

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Relationships

2 Months Into a Relationship and Seeing Numerous Red Flags

2 Months Into A Relationship And Seeing Numerous Red Flags?

Sadly, these are long-standing red flags.

While he was courting you, some of these red flags were evident, but you chose to ignore them.

You were so taken with how good he was making you feel, you chose to focus on the good feelings as opposed to the red flags.

Now, you are 2 months into your relationship with him and seemingly seeing these numerous red flags.

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Social Media

What’s the First Thing a Woman Looks for on a Potential Date’s Social Media Profile?

What's The First Thing A Woman Looks For On A Potential Date's Social Media Profile?

Her first concern is that you physically appear as you depict yourself on whatever online platform she met you on, should it be the case that she has never met you in person.

If you matched with her on a dating site for example, the first thing she looks for on your social media is to verify your physical appearance.

As a potential date, the last thing she wants to do is show up on a date only to be disappointed by your physical appearance.

In the event this is a woman who has already met you in real life in some capacity or is fully aware of what you look like, the first thing she looks for on your social media centers around your photos too.

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Texting

Is It Clingy To Expect a Text at Least Every 1 or 2 Days From a Person You’re Dating, Especially When You’re the One Who Usually Texts?

Is It Clingy To Expect A Text At Least Every 1 Or 2 Days From A Person You're Dating, Especially When You're The One Who Usually Texts?

Dating is a two-way street, requiring two actively participating individuals to make it work.

That is how dating has always worked and the only way it can work.

Without that, what you have with him isn’t dating, not even close to it.

With that in mind, expecting a text every 1 or 2 days isn’t clingy at all.

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