Since guys are more visually stimulated by what they see than women are, they are biologically predisposed to fall for a girl’s looks first.

Without being initially drawn to her looks, there will never be a chance for him to fall for her personality.

For him, her looks come first.

Her looks provide the doorway into any other sentiments that have the potential to develop after the fact.

Women look for congruence between a man’s personality and looks.

Basically, she wants to be just as drawn to his looks as she is his personality.

Men can be far more diplomatic in how they regard the two.

The more bedeviled he is by her looks, the more open he is to accepting her personality, regardless of whether it gels with his own or not.

Even if he discovers through conversation that she has values and interests that are disparate from his, he finds a way to make himself believe that this doesn’t matter.

A guy taken by a girl’s looks makes concessions.

He might have absolutely no love for the outdoors but decides that he is open to doing outdoor activities because he has learned she is all about the outdoorsy lifestyle.

Ergo, men have a huge ability to accommodate a girl who has a totally different lifestyle from theirs, as long as she has the looks.

The guy who falls for a girl’s personality first is usually the one who has had an established friendship with her beforehand.

Prior to falling for her, the friendship was strictly platonic, and rapport was built over time based on shared interests, life goals, backgrounds, worldviews, etc.

His intent was never to seduce her nor develop a romantic interest in her.

He became a friend of hers due to what they shared in common, which made her someone interesting.

Yet, over time, while getting to know her as a person through conversations and social meetups alongside other mutual friends, he suddenly realized that he was beginning to look at her differently.

Instead of only seeing her as a friend, he was visualizing what it would be like to date her.

This happens unexpectedly, as he wasn’t planning on falling for her.

It’s just that as their friendship grew, he came to realize that their commonalities and the ease in which they interact and laugh together were having a profound effect on him.

All of a sudden, he was thinking of her much more.

Unlike how it was in the beginning, when the relationship felt totally platonic, he is daydreaming about her while he is doing other activities, such as working, doing chores around his house, or exercising.

He can’t seem to stop thinking about her.

Additionally, he is obsessively watching her social media posts all of a sudden.

Something he didn’t do with such fervor when he only saw her as a platonic friend.

All of that has changed now that his feelings for her have intensified in a romantic capacity.

It is in scenarios like this that a guy falls for a girl’s personality first.

Her favorable looks are a pleasant addition.

But what got him to consider her as a romantic prospect was the rapport built over time in a platonic friendship.