Sadly, by now, you have developed a complacency that is second nature to you.

At 32 years of age, you are set in your ways, and as a result, you consciously make excuses for why you can never get a date.

Once we reach a certain age, we establish a comfort zone in who we are as a person, making it harder for us to take a sincere look at ourselves so as to determine why we are having a difficult time in a certain area of our lives.

Instead, we tell ourselves that this is who we are and the world should bend to it.

With this mindset, you continue as you have done for years, and before you know it, you are a 32-year-old guy who can never get a date, and you are aggravated.

As long as you haven’t been living under a rock for your whole life, there has been ample opportunity for you to find a date out in the wild.

There are women everywhere in the real world.

You see them when you are headed to work, at school, at the library, at the grocery store, or at your favorite restaurant or coffee shop.

Women are everywhere.

Not only do you see them, but you also interact with them to some extent, whether it be at work, at the gym, at church, or while you are ordering your favorite latte or buying a new tech gadget at your favorite tech store.

There has been ample opportunity for you to interact with women.

As a 32-year-old guy who can never get a date, you have clearly not taken advantage of the everyday opportunities that you experience.

Lots of men in your position make the mistake of thinking that women should be more aggressive in showing an interest in them through approaching them or asking them out.

Once you have gone your whole life and reached the age of 32 without getting dates, it’s natural that you find ways to explain it away so that you don’t have to take any responsibility.

If you have been going about your life thinking that women should make romantic moves on you, you are about to wait for another 32 years and then some.

Women aren’t usually aggressive in pursuing men.

They send choosing signals to indicate romantic interest.

It’s possible that there have been moments where a woman sent out signs of interest towards you and you chose not to act on it.

Women don’t dwell on men who aren’t bold enough to make a move on them.

Since men are constantly trying to date them, she moves on to the next guy who is capable of reading her signs of interest and acting on it by making a move on her.

If you want to start getting dates with women, you have to become more bold.

Yes, that means that you risk rejection.

There is no way around this.

Women are generally the pursued sex, and men chase.

This is how it has been since the beginning of humanity, and it won’t ever change.

Sadly, the older we get, the more stubborn and stuck in our ways we become.

You mustn’t follow this pattern.

The moment you start boldly talking to women and demonstrating romantic interest is the moment you change your dating life forever.

Coupling this with improving yourself as a person, such as working on being physically fit, improving your fashion sense, leveling yourself up financially, and expanding your social circle and influence, you will start having more dates than you know what to do with.