Sadly, these are long-standing red flags.

While he was courting you, some of these red flags were evident, but you chose to ignore them.

You were so taken with how good he was making you feel, you chose to focus on the good feelings as opposed to the red flags.

Now, you are 2 months into your relationship with him and seemingly seeing these numerous red flags.

They were there when he was courting you.

Indeed, he didn’t show them all at the time.

He was careful to not deluge you with all these red flags, given that he didn’t want to run you off.

However, he did show some of these red flags while he was courting you.

He is only more brazen about showing more of them now.

This is because he has you emotionally hooked on him.

Additionally, you are more likely to see these red flags at this stage, being that he isn’t pursuing you as hard as he was when he was courting you.

You have had some room to breathe emotionally, and that has allowed you to take a step back and assess your relationship.

Don’t make the mistake that many women in similar circumstances do, which is to assume that these red flags are brand-new.

They aren’t.

Being that you have noticed a numerous number of them, it means that these are red flags he possessed before he ever met you.

A guy doesn’t suddenly have numerous red flags out of nowhere only 2 months into dating a girl.

He had these red flags before he met you.

Which can only mean one thing.

These numerous red flags are a huge part of his character.

Unfortunately, lots of women in your situation make the mistake of thinking that they are capable of fixing it.

A woman that is emotionally invested in a guy becomes desperate to hold on to him.

She doesn’t want to lose the exciting feelings he gives her.

As a result, she convinces herself that she can fix his numerous red flags.

Consequently, she invests a lot of time and energy into fixing them, thinking that it will work out.

But, the trouble with this type of thinking is that you are dealing with a guy with behavioral flaws that existed before you showed up.

Being that this is who he was before he ever met you, these behaviors are ingrained in his psyche, and as much a part of him as a limb or his DNA.

Even though you call him out on these red flags, it doesn’t have a lasting impact on him.

He seemingly changes for a short while, but regresses back to doing them again.

Several more months into the relationship, you are back at square one, your emotions all over the place.

Where so many women go wrong is in thinking they can fix a man whose behavioral issues were a part of his character before they ever met him.

A habitual behavioral trait is almost impossible to get rid of, unless the person in question is the one who wants to get rid of them, and is ready to put in the work to do it.

People rarely do this.

It’s much easier to keep with who they have been for the longest time than to make difficult changes to their character to improve themselves.

Unfortunately, there is no fixing your boyfriend.

You are better off ending this relationship while it is still fairly early.

This makes it easier on you, being that your emotions for him are still fresh and not entirely settled in.