A girl who wants to see you again makes herself available for dates, making it easy for you to set them up.
She drops hints in conversation with you by mentioning an activity she hasn’t done in a while, but would love to do soon.
When she says stuff like that on a consistent basis, she is hoping that you get the hint.
Ask her if she would like to do that activity this Friday, or on a day that you are both available.
A girl who wants to see you again constantly reminds you about the previous date or dates that you have been on together.
She talks about something that happened during a date or something you said.
She does this, wanting you to know that she had fun during those dates and wants your thoughts to go back to the dates.
If she has you thinking about how much fun you had on those dates, she hopes that you use that moment to ask her on another date.
She is hoping that you get the hint that she wants to see you again.
A girl with these motivations asks you about what your plans are for the weekend or for an upcoming day you are off.
She doesn’t ask you this in a direct fashion so as not to appear too obvious.
She is subtle about it by asking you if you have done such and such recently.
You say that you haven’t but you are planning to this weekend.
Right there, she has discovered what you are going to be up to this weekend.
She is hoping that you get the hint and ask her if she would like to partake in the activity with you.
A girl who wants to see you again is easy to get a hold of, and rarely lets your phone calls go to voicemail.
She answers your phone calls if she is available, and if she isn’t, she returns your calls as promptly as possible.
You won’t be waiting for several hours or days for her to return a phone call or respond to a text.
You won’t have to make multiple phone calls or send multiple texts to get a single response from her.
She makes the process of courting her as cohesive as she can.
This being said, there are girls who won’t make this process flow because they love the attention and would rather have you guessing for a while.
This could be the girl that you are dealing with.
She is taking a while to call or text you back, loving how she gets to make you doubt and wonder about what is going on.
This is when she calls off dates, wanting you to feel insecurity about how things are going, and thereby, desire her that much more.
She gets off on the control and power she has over the situation.
In the end, a girl like this either lets you in or leaves.
There are no guarantees with a girl like this.
She keeps playing these games, having you guessing, until she has gotten bored with you and decides to move on to the next guy.
If you are not into these games and the uncertainty they bring, and you are seeking someone who is more sincere in the dating process, this isn’t the right girl for you.
So, stop being confused and move on.
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