What To Do When You Are Obsessing Over Everything She Says And Does?

Without taking that next and innately critical step in asking her out on a date, obsessing over everything she says and does is inevitable.

What To Do When You Are Obsessing Over Everything She Says And Does?You keep waiting and waiting, hoping for the perfect moment.

There isn’t a perfect moment.

The problem with waiting for that perfect moment is that, when it has seemingly arrived, you find a way to tell yourself that it isn’t quite right.

You procrastinate and push it forward yet again.

Listen, the more you delay, the more you obsess over everything she says and does.

You keep reading into everything she says and does, dissecting every word or deed, hoping that they signify that she is just as into you as you are into her.

You are hoping that she can feel for you the way you feel for her.

You are desperate to know this and feel this.

There are moments when it feels like she has given you good advances.

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You feel like she likes you and wants more from you.

In these moments, you tell yourself that you are finally going to take that step and ask her out.

Not too long after that, she doesn’t give you the same vibes.

All of a sudden, you begin to backtrack.

You were thinking about asking her out.

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You have picked out when and where you do it, but unfortunately, she is now giving you the wrong signs.

You are afraid.

You worry that were you to tell her about how you feel about her or ask her out, she would tell you she isn’t interested.

Out of fear, you decide to postpone yet again.

This is something that transitions into an endless cycle if you don’t put a stop to it.

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The moment you ask her out and get her answer, it’s easier for you to move forward with your life, stopping with the obsession, regardless of what answer she gives you.

On the flip side of all this, you should also consider the possibility that you are obsessing over everything that she says or does, having recently gotten out of a relationship that ended badly, or having had prior relationships that ended badly.

A big part of why you obsess has to do with the worry that in getting into a relationship with her, you fail again, or the relationship ends up being like your previous ones.

In order to guard yourself from this, you admire her from afar but are cautious to get involved.

If you are grappling with emotional issues from a previous relationship that ended badly, you should take some time out for yourself before getting into a new relationship.

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Getting into a new relationship without having worked on these emotional issues and resolving them, only puts you right back into the same cycle of disappointment and failure.

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