How Does A Man Feel When He Is Approached By A Beautiful Woman?

How Does A Man Feel When He Is Approached By A Beautiful Woman?

Stunned.

Men aren’t used to women approaching them, let alone beautiful women.

A beautiful woman that approaches a man is an anomaly.

It is met with surprise at first because it is either something that rarely happens to him or never happens.

He doesn’t quite know what is happening and there is a degree of confusion.

Has this beautiful woman mistaken him for somebody else?

Is she in her right mind?

Is she lost?

For him, there is an avalanche of questions soaring through his brain as she approaches him.

Again, this isn’t a daily occurrence for him, so he is grappling with what is happening.

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This is why so many men aren’t on their game when a beautiful woman approaches them.

They are never prepared for this.

So they are taken aback, having trouble communicating in a confident manner.

Although he is gregarious and charming by nature, he is at a loss for words as the beautiful woman approaches and opens up a conversation with him.

He is fidgeting with his clothing or jewelry.

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He is not making strong eye contact, averting his eyes from hers way too often.

His body is rigid as though he is an Egyptian mummy who just woke up from a thousand year sleep.

None of this makes the beautiful woman feel all that good for approaching him.

Although she is attracted to him, his negative body language leaves her disappointed and she isn’t too keen to keep up the conversation for too long.

Why would she?

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He looks like he is about to pee in his pants.

A man isn’t ready when a beautiful woman approaches him, and his consequent body language belies the possibility that he is actually a confident guy by nature.

Keeping this in mind, as a beautiful woman who decides to approach a man out of the blue, it does you good to practice patience.

Remember that the majority of men never or rarely get approached by women, let alone beautiful women.

It pays to give him a few minutes to adjust to the reality that a beautiful woman had the courage to approach him out of nowhere.

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Not every guy that looks like he is about to pee in his pants when you approach is a guy who has a scarcity of confidence or social skills.

Many of them are startled and need a few minutes to gather themselves.

As you chat with him, it’s important you show him that the reason for your approach was romantic in nature.

Oftentimes, he gets this impression when you flirt with him to an extent, sustain eye contact with him and lightly touch him as you converse.

Your intent has to be crystal clear to any man you approach. Otherwise, he simply won’t know that you are interested in him.

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Almost every man who is approached by a beautiful woman thinks that she already has a boyfriend.

In talking to him platonically, without giving him any signs that you have romantic intentions, his brain is instantly going to think that you are being friendly, and have no romantic intentions.

As far as he is concerned, as soon as you are done chatting with him and walk away, you are meeting up with your boyfriend for dinner.

As long as he thinks you have a boyfriend, he won’t give you the romantic response you were hoping for in approaching him in the first place.

So, you can’t be ambiguous with your intentions.

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He needs to get a solid idea that the reason for your approach was rooted on an attraction for him.

Again, you can convey this through flirting with him, sustaining eye contact, and lightly touching him as you converse.

Once you do this, he knows that you have an attraction for him.

A confident guy would take advantage of this and ask for your number before the conversation is over.

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