A really good looking person does have many options, but it doesn’t mean they have any interest in them.
A warm body isn’t enough to capture someone’s heart.
It’s enough to have fun for now, but a warm body doesn’t connect with the core of a person’s emotions.
There comes a time when even the most good looking person in the world gets tired of warm bodies and craves a deeper connection.
He knows what that warm body is drawn to.
That warm body is drawn to his really good looks.
She doesn’t know him as a person and probably doesn’t care to.
It doesn’t take long before he has the feeling that he is a piece of meat, to be gawked at.
There was a time when he was okay with that, but he has evolved.
Don’t be fooled into thinking that his many options point to him leaving you eventually.
These options are warm bodies.
A really good looking person who craves substance isn’t beguiled into leaving a perfectly good partner for a sea of warm bodies.
Been there, done that.
Choosing to date you in the first place is your first indication that he was tired of quantity and was looking for quality.
The majority of really good looking people in the world choose to date exclusively eventually, as they crave a deeper connection with someone.
As long as they are in a relationship that fulfills them, the idea of diving back into that ocean of warm bodies is unappealing.
In lieu of worrying about the prospect that a really good looking person eventually leaves you, prioritize working on building a rock solid foundation of trust and transparency in your relationship.
Work through issues, as opposed to ignoring them.
Never stop learning about each other and having new adventures.
Communicate. Communicate. Communicate.
This is the recipe for a successful relationship, whether you are dating a really good looking person or not.
The same rules apply.
You are right in that a really good looking person has many options.
The likelihood that he leaves you for someone else is slim regardless of these options, as long as you two have kept up with the relationship and never taken it for granted.
Remember, he has been there, done that.
Now that he has a relationship that goes deeper, he is less inclined to jeopardize it.
The majority of really good looking people don’t leave a relationship because they have so many options, they leave it because the relationship is no longer fulfilling.
That is why you have to prioritize building a trusting relationship, filled with communication and transparency.
You aren’t easily replaceable, as unlike the warm bodies out there in the world, he connects with you on a much deeper level.
Leaving a perfectly good relationship to get back into the rat race isn’t something he desires nor craves.
The whole reason why he left the rat race was to find a deeper connection with someone.
Why would he go back to that when he is perfectly happy with you?
This being said, are there a minority of really good looking people who eventually give in to the temptation of having so many options and choose to leave their partner?
But those are the same really good looking people who come crawling back begging you to take them back.
A warm body doesn’t equate to special.
You are special.
Although working on building a trusting and transparent relationship that is full of communication and adventure helps in mitigating the likelihood he eventually leaves you for one of his many options, there is no definitive guarantee that he doesn’t leave.
To mitigate it further, vet him and pay attention to his proclivities.
A really good looking person who will eventually leave you for one of his many options has a history of cheating on long-term partners and has a proclivity to be a rabid flirt.
Two key signs that this is a really good looking person to avoid.
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