Does He Like Me Or Not?

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Does He Like Me Or Not?

He may like you if he tends to look at you often and smile at you.

If he tends to follow this up with conversation as well and possibly flirting, this is even a stronger sign that he likes you.

On the other hand, he may be looking at you from time to time but not smiling.

If he is doing this, he may like you but is too nervous to make a move on you.

Hence, he may be really shy.

He may also be hoping that you look back at him and smile.

Thereby, he may actually be looking for a sign of interest from you that you may not be giving him.

As a result, he just keeps looking without smiling or any facial expression on his face because he doesn’t know what to make of how you are acting or whether you like him at all.

If this is a guy that you have talked to a few times and has given you compliments, there is a chance that he does like you.

However, he hasn’t made a move to ask you out yet because he is not sure about how you feel about him.

He may be worried that by making a move, he would be putting himself in a really vulnerable position
without being certain about how you feel about him.

Being fearful of how you would react to asking you out is what would typically prevent him from doing so.

You may not have given him compliments back or he may feel like your body language hasn’t shown him that you have any real attraction towards him.

Hence, in a scenario like this, you should ensure that you give him compliments as well and also use your body language to show him that you are into him.

It could be something as simple as touching him briefly on his arm as you talk to him.

This kind of body language from you creates a physical connection and breaks the personal space barrier that most people have.

Doing things like this will let him see that you are returning his affection and that he should feel encouraged to actually ask you out.

Now, if this is a guy that tends to flirt with you a lot but you also notice tends to flirt with other girls as well, he may not like you in particular.

There are some guys who just love to flirt without having to commit to anything.

This is the kind of guy that you may be dealing with.

This is a guy who may call you beautiful one day and then the next day you hear him calling two other girls beautiful.

You should also be able to tell whether he likes you or not through how he communicates with you.

If he rarely initiates phone calls or texts, there is a good chance that he doesn’t like you.

He may be alright with initiating on occasion but doesn’t feel that you are that important for him to initiate more often.

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3 thoughts on “Does He Like Me Or Not?”

  1. So there’s a guy I’ve been really liking for some time now. He gives me mixed signals , he’s hot then cold. He asked me once if I have a boyfriend I said no, but he never asked me out! I am so CONFUSED! I am feeling as though he’s a bit nervous to make a move. Am I supposed to make the move?!!?HELP!

  2. Hi Mary,

    He may need more clear signs from you to show him that you are interested. So, you may need to work on your body language and also engaging in conversations with him. The more comfortable he feels around you, the more likely he will ask you out if he likes you.

  3. So there is this man that I know at my church but we are not close friends just mostly an acquaintance and I see him at social gatherings. First time I noticed something interesting is when I was talking to him with another man he did not look at me that much but stared at a notebook and kept smiling. He was rather quiet while the other guy and I were engaged in the conversation. After I had caught him several times stare at me when left my seat to use the bathroom in church service ( Could see through the windows). One day he came up to my car to talk to me while I was inside and he was outside got really close bended down to my eye level and was smiling and asking me questions. Then after he walked away with some distance away we both turned around and looked at each other with smiles on our faces. Another time while I was tending to some kids, I turned around to catch looking at me with this lustful eyes. He was bended over on a table acting like he was writing something only to be staring at me. I saw him and quickly looked away. But his eyes had this longing look on it. Many times to he has come up to me in church to talk and he got really in my personal space with a smile on his face with which he will look at the ground and then look at me but I moved back a little and to the side so people did not think something was going on between us. Recently at parties I have seen him stealing glances and smiling at me from afar and when I see him I quickly look down or away not to show sign of interest. At one time too when he was leaving a party he got close to me by the side and whispered bye in a slow manner with a smile like it was our little secret. This caught me off guard so I did not look at him but said bye quickly and nicely. But then still caught of guard and wonder ing what just happened, I looked across the room to see him smiling and looking at me.But I quickly looked away. The crazy thing is that we are both married to others so I am trying to avoid problems but it seems that he is attracted to me and I am fancing that but trying to be careful. Another time at another social gathering he stared at me and I looked at him only to quickly look down. Also when my husband and I were talking and smiling he was looking and when I caught him and I quickly looked down and when I looked second later he looked away. The most recent situation is when he walked to me in church and stood really really close to me looked at me in the eye with no smile but raising is eyebrows at me like he expected me to say something. I had my head lowered like I was looking at other things so when he got really close I raised my eyes and eyebrows to him with a smile and said hi but did it in a weird manner to signal to him what does he want from me when he did not say anything. Then he looked down slowly and smiled to himself and walked away without saying anything. So I have been trying to figure what that meant. The next church service I did not look at him at all but I could see him looking at me and stealing glances at me from afar. He noticed I did not give him attention because the last encounter was really awkward. I really want to know if he really likes me, or want me or not. I have avoided getting close to him or his family partly bc of this. Or is it because we are both married he is conflicted.

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