There is cause to be worried when he is adding girls on Instagram to his social media.

This doesn’t mean that you are the one that has caused him to do this.

Considering you are still in the flirting stage with this guy and don’t know him that well yet, it’s within reason to think that adding girls on Instagram to his social media is not new to him.

He was doing this before he met you.

A history of doing this suggests he would keep it up, regardless of whether he is talking to someone with romantic potential or not.

Some guys are in the habit of adding girls, especially hot girls on Instagram, to their social media.

They do this to get an ego boost from getting their attention.

Guys are exceedingly visual by nature and care deeply about their status on the social hierarchy.

A guy who has a bunch of girls as followers on social media has social cache.

He looks like he is a guy that gets the hot girls.

So, not only does he get to feel good about himself for adding these girls, he also gets the social clout of having all these hot girls on his social media.

He had this mentality before you two ever met.

It’s worrisome, yes.

It’s like you are competing with a bunch of Instagram girls that are beyond your league.

They have perfect faces and bodies.

You worry that in adding these girls, he is indicating to you that you aren’t attractive enough.

Although many guys are in the habit of adding girls on Instagram to their social media, several of them are in committed relationships with girlfriends.

A good number of their girlfriends don’t like it, but they tolerate it.

They have realized that arguing or fighting with him over this proclivity is a pointless venture.

She recognizes that her boyfriend loves having these hot girls on his social media because it points to his virility and prowess.

Again, she doesn’t like it.

But, she hasn’t seen her boyfriend do anything other than add these girls to his social media and like their photos.

He has never met any of these girls out in public and as far as she knows, has remained faithful to her.

This being said, it’s a slippery slope.

Though there are guys who are capable of adding girls on Instagram to their social media and never go beyond liking photos, there are those who are susceptible to taking it beyond that.

Being that you are still in the flirting stage with him, there isn’t a strong emotional foundation set between you two quite yet.

Unlike a guy who is already in a committed relationship, this guy could falter if he suddenly finds himself receiving a bunch of attention from one of the hot girls on Instagram that he added to his social media.

It doesn’t do you any good to argue or fight with him over adding girls on Instagram to his social media.

You two aren’t exclusively dating, so you don’t have much authority in bringing this up and expecting him to take you seriously.

Instead, show him how dynamic and fun you are.

Talk to him about his interests.

Participate in them with him and show enthusiasm while doing so.

Whenever you talk to him or do an activity with him, share information about yourself that he is unaware of.

This way, it’s like you are an onion that he is peeling, each peel revealing a brand new revelation that he didn’t know.

This fosters excitement and unpredictability.

The advantage you have over the girls on Instagram is that you get to talk and hang out with this guy in real life settings.

The girls on Instagram are virtual, which makes any exchange he has with them a lot less intimate.

In due course, the hope is that he gets to develop a profound connection with you, causing him to pay less and less attention to those virtual girls and loads on you.