Should You Fight To Date A Girl If Her Parent’s Said No

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Should You Fight To Date A Girl If Her Parent's Said No

Her parents may feel like you are not the right person for their daughter.

This could be due to your socioeconomic status, physicality or even your background.

They may also have a definitive picture in their heads of who their daughter should be dating.

They may even have this person picked out already.

The thing is, many parents can be very protective of their daughters in particular.

They look at their daughter as a gem who needs to be protected and guided in the big bad world.

They hold on to the hope that their daughter will remain pristine until she has found the best possible mate.

The problem with this belief is that the best possible mate that the parents have in mind for their precious daughter may not exist.

After all, no one is perfect.

The parents may believe that they already have the right guy in mind for their daughter, only to discover at some point in the future that this so called “right guy” has anger issues or is self-centered.

This can be difficult to deal with.

That “right guy” turned out to be not so right after all for their daughter.

It can be very difficult for a parent to allow their daughter to date independently and make her own mistakes as she goes along.

However, this is a part of what her life experience should be.

She should date and make mistakes.

As she makes mistakes that she learns from, her future dating prospects become better and she grows as a person.

Unfortunately, some parents want to skip this part.

They want to give their daughter the best chance at meeting Mr Right at her first attempt.

This is unfortunately near impossible.

However, they hold on to the hope that they know what is best for their daughter.

What they are essentially doing though is sheltering her to the point that would be detrimental to her prospects of growing and maturing as a person.

Fighting to date this girl could be a problem.

You would be devoting a lot of time and energy to meeting her surreptitiously or just trying to be around her.

It could affect you psychologically as these kind of games can become very daunting.

Your best option would be to try to be around her parents.

You could show them that you are a guy worth dating through having proper manners.

You can also work on your personal life and become a valuable and productive member of society.

If you contribute in a positive way in your community, the news about your good deeds will get around.

Her parents may hear about you from other sources.

This may make them take a second look at you and possibly give you a chance to be with their daughter.

However, there are still no guarantees.

Some parents can be quite stringent in their beliefs.

Regardless, you should always want to be better in your life.

Growing as a person is so crucial in life.

If her parents ultimately see you as someone worth dating in the future due to this, that is fine.

However, if they don’t, you should continue being an invaluable member of your community and you may ultimately come across someone else who would be a better dating prospect for you.


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