Would A Girl Date An Immature Guy?

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Would A Girl Date An Immature Guy?

A girl would date an immature guy depending on her perspective.

Some girls may look at an immature guy as a challenge.

This may actually make them interested in pursuing the guy.

The guy becomes a project that they have to work on.

They may be liking him for all the wrong reasons but they justify it by imagining the finished product.

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They get to make this guy better and more responsible.

That can be very appealing to some girls.

On the flip side, a girl could look at an immature guy as inconsiderate and more trouble than he is worth.

They may not want to get involved when they know that they are going to have a lot of work to do.

They don’t want to have to constantly correct him and set him straight.

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This is too much work.

They would rather a guy who is already packaged and ready to go.

They would rather a guy who is predictable to an extent and doesn’t shame them in front of those they care about.

So, it really depends on the girl that you are dealing with.

A girl may date an immature guy as a temporary phase.

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In other words, a girl may date an immature guy knowing full well that the relationship won’t go the distance nor does she want it to.

She will date the immature guy temporarily simply because there may be something about the immature guy that excites and intrigues her.

However, she knows that she will not date him for long.

She doesn’t look at this immature guy as someone who will be an important part of her long-term future.

He is temporary.

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Perhaps he is really attractive or has a unique edge.

A girl may choose to date this immature guy knowing full well that once she has had her fill, she will let him go shortly after.

Hence, she can be quite calculating in this aspect.

She will have the immature guy fulfill an immediate emotional or physical need.

However, once that need is met, she will dump him.

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The younger the girl is, the more likely she will date an immature guy.

She may misconstrue his immaturity for masculinity or as a cry for help.

She is young and doesn’t quite know how to process this information in a logical manner.

She doesn’t have the disposition to consider the possible ramifications of dating an immature guy.

As far as she is concerned, he is being his own unique self and may be misunderstood by people in general.

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This makes her empathetic towards him.

In her mind, he is simply misunderstood and should not be judged.

No one is perfect after all.

As a result, she chooses to date him.

She has used her own somewhat naive perception to make this happen.

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The older she gets however, the less likely she is to date an immature guy.

By this point, she has already had several experiences with the immature guy.

They weren’t good experiences.

She knows better and chooses to date a more mature guy.