Feeling you have to choose between your parents and a girl that you like or love isn’t the right mindset.
Consider making things work between the two parties.
Whatever it is that is causing the friction between your parents and this girl is resolvable.
Sometimes, we give up so easily when there is a misunderstanding in our relationships.
Parents don’t always like the person that their child is dating.
This is a fact of life that has persisted for centuries.
It is unlikely that these misunderstandings ever become obsolete.
There is no reason why bringing them to a middle ground isn’t doable.
This girl that you like or love has some qualities and details about her that your parents do like but have not been made aware of.
Consider that for a second.
Is there something about this girl that you haven’t revealed to your parents?
It’s about finding some common ground.
This, in turn, encourages your parents to feel better about you dating this girl.
You need to work on this.
What about a belief system that she has or something that occurred in her past?
Somewhere within is a connecting thread.
When you don’t come up with anything, persist.
You are giving up too easily.
How about the people in her life?
Are there any similarities between one of her relatives and one of your parents?
What about a hobby that they both share?
Think carefully about this.
You don’t need to surrender yourself to having to choose between your parents and a girl.
By working hard to find some common ground between your parents and this girl, there are shockingly good similarities to discover.
This is where you have to put on your hat of courage and refuse to give up.
Find common ground and you won’t have to choose.
It is always beneficial to have a good balance between time spent with your parents and time spent with a girl.
You don’t have to choose between them.
Duly, your relationship is best served when you appreciate your time with both.
There is so much to learn from your parents that helps your relationship with this girl.
Your parents have clearly been there when it comes to relationships.
Watching how they behave and observing how they listen to one another gives you a blueprint as to how to go about consistently connecting with this girl.
Don’t throw that all away.