It depends on how it has been going.
If you just started dating this girl and have really hit it off, messaging her multiple times a day could work, as long as it fits the tenor of the relationship.
A girl who texts or calls you a lot wants the same in return.
This much communication is indicative of a girl who thinks about you throughout the day.
She texts or calls you to keep the connection open.
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Respond with the same energy and zeal.
She obviously feels really comfortable with you and wants to communicate often as a result.
It is really important that you match her enthusiasm here.
A big mistake that a lot of guys make is to keep their communication at a minimum when they just start dating a girl, even when she is constantly communicating.
They do this, believing they shouldn’t appear to be overeager.
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This is a mistake, being that they will only end up making the girl question just how much they like her.
When a girl questions and doubts you, she asks her friends about their opinion.
There is a good chance that her friends encourage her to drop you.
She is against this at first, given that she likes you so much.
As she continues to communicate with you regularly on a daily basis and you continue to be lackluster in your response, she takes this advice from her friends to heart and stops trying.
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This means that you are now in a precarious position.
She is not messaging as much as she used to and you panic.
By the time you have mustered enough common sense to begin initiating more conversations, she has lost interest.
This is why it is critical to gauge the kind of relationship that you are in.
As I mentioned earlier, if you two have really hit it off, there is no limit to how much you message each other.
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It flows with the pace and rhythm of the relationship, happening naturally.
On the the flip side, when she seems relatively conservative or seems to be taking things slow, go along with that as well.
You have to do most of the initiating of conversation in the early stages, but keep it to about one or two messages a day and no more.
To reiterate, you have to do the lion’s share of the initiation earlier on.
Give her enough to know that you were thinking about her without making her feel like you are trying too hard by sending her too many messages.
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Use whatever behavior she has shown you as your guide.
When she is talkative and is always looking to communicate, match her energy in kind.
Don’t hold back.
With a girl who is taking it slow, keep your messages to one or two a day at the start.
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