His confidence and life experience matter.

A guy with real confidence won’t be insecure dating a girl way out of his league.

He already knows he has phenomenal qualities that make him appealing to the opposite sex.

Even though he is deficient in areas where she is better than him, he believes he makes up for it in other areas.

To this effect, a confident man isn’t bothered when a girl is way out of his league in certain areas.

If anything, he sees it as a plus.

Wherever he is deficient, she makes up for it.

So, if she is better looking than him, she makes him look aesthetically better by being his partner.

Whereas a guy who is better than her in lifestyle and personality makes her look like she has an exciting and fun guy as her partner.

To this end, there is a synergy to their connection.

Additionally, a confident guy has already had past experiences dating girls who are out of their league.

But he soon realized that these girls respected him for the other qualities he brought into the relationship where they were deficient.

This allowed his confidence to grow that much more while dating them, realizing that he brings something to the relationship that those girls craved.

His lifestyle and personality.

These previous girlfriends appreciated how he balanced out their relationship and treated him with kindness and respect for it.

These were healthy relationships where he wasn’t put down by the fact that he didn’t match her level in good physical looks.

Thanks to this, he never developed an insecure mindset about dating girls who were out of his league.

On the other hand, a guy who isn’t confident, with little to no history dating girls way out of his league, is the insecure one.

He already knows he has low self-confidence and lacks a history of dating women who are way out of his league.

If there was ever a girl he dated who was way out of his league, it didn’t work out.

He was either constantly demonstrating his insecurity in how he behaved or she took advantage of her powerful position by putting him down.

Regardless, when you are dating a man who lacks confidence, with little to no history dating women way out of his league, he is almost guaranteed to be insecure.

His insecurity is demonstrated in how often he puts himself down in your presence.

He is so down on himself; whenever he is around you, he becomes an emotional burden.

You are constantly having to lift him up emotionally by continuously reminding him about how amazing he is.

This is a guy with low self-esteem.

Oftentimes, the longer you are with a man who is this insecure about dating you, his negativity about himself will rub off on you.

You begin to feel self-conscious about how good you look in comparison to him.

To constantly satiate his low self-esteem, you downplay your own physical appearance.

This alone makes you susceptible to feeling low about yourself.

His low self-esteem has rubbed off on you, making for an unhealthy relationship that is doomed to fail.