A fun night together comes at a price.
He knows that you are now filled with expectations.
Expectations he doesn’t have the capacity to meet.
By blocking you, it keeps him from having to deal with the expectations he believes you now have.
He has been in this predicament before.
He has had a fun night with a girl in the past, and she followed that up by becoming too clingy or overzealous.
All of a sudden, she is asking about when he is taking her out on an official date or what he is doing over the weekend.
It becomes too much.
He never intended for the night to be more than what it was with her.
When that fun night was over, he wasn’t filled with thoughts about making her his future girlfriend.
On the contrary, he was thinking about all the tasks he had to get done later that day or during that week.
He wasn’t at all ready for anything as intense as a serious relationship with her.
Sadly, he is using this history as his template in regards to how he handles you.
The only difference is that he didn’t permit his dalliance with you to go as far as his last one.
He was proactive in blocking you before giving you much of a chance to reengage with him.
During his fun night with you, he got the impression that you were not about to leave it at that.
He knew that you were sure to want more of him after the fact.
This was deduced from his read on your personality, as well as nuggets of information you gave him about your past.
Based on all this, he already knew that he intended to block you afterward.
The reality is, he isn’t emotionally available to anyone at this period in his life, which made blocking you all the more pivotal.
He knew that you were about to start messaging or calling him about seeing him again.
That is pressure he isn’t keen on, knowing the responsibility that a serious relationship carries with it.
Irrespective of whether you are of the mind that all you want from him are fun nights, and nothing more, he can’t be convinced of it.
The idea of more nights of fun with no strings attached is tempting at first, but he doesn’t believe this is where it stays.
His perception of you is that you are someone who catches feelings after a few incidents of intimacy with a guy.
This is what he wants to steer clear of like the plague.
He has been there before with a girl who made it seem as though all she wanted were fun nights.
That was until she caught feelings.
Suddenly, she was stalking him all over social media, and her incessant text messages and phone calls forced him to contemplate changing his phone number.
That is a history he doesn’t want repeated.
To that end, he blocked you soon after a fun night together.
In doing this, he believes he is getting ahead of all of this happening all over again with someone like you.