As a shy guy, there have been several instances where you wanted to talk to an attractive girl but couldn’t muster the courage to do it.

Your mind becomes your worst enemy in these moments.

It tells you that she won’t be attracted to you or that she will think that you are weird.

Oftentimes, you use the “she has a boyfriend” excuse to keep you from making a move on her.

This allows you to feel better about not approaching her.

It’s been difficult living a life as a shy guy while navigating the world of dating.

So challenging that you have often thought about what a life of complete solitude would look like.

A life alone, without a life partner.

You have actually gone as far as making yourself think that it wouldn’t be so bad.

In these moments, you convince yourself that living a life of solitude would save you from a life of constant rejection.

This thought process gives you a degree of solace.

The fear of rejection is so strong within you, you would much rather live a life of solitude so as to save yourself from having to experience it.

As a shy guy, rejection from a girl you like is about the worst thing you can experience.

You are terrified of it.

The good news is that there is a way to navigate the world of dating without having to worry so much about rejection.

This is where you are meeting women in interest groups.

When you meet women in interest groups, you improve the chances of connecting with them, given that you share the same love in a hobby or activity.

As she gets to know you through regular conversation over time as you engage in said activity, she develops a deeper interest in you.

Such an interest that she starts asking you more personal questions in an attempt to get to know more about who you are as a person, outside of the activity you both share.

At this stage, should she like what she hears, she is likely to send clues your way that she wants to go out on a date with you.

Just like that, you are now in a position to ask her out on a date without having to worry about the prospect of rejection.

As a shy guy, using this approach to meet potential partners is a huge game changer, significantly reducing one of your greatest fears.

That of rejection.

Additionally, when you want to date as a shy guy, it’s a good idea to adhere to the well-known adage of “faking it until you make it.”

This is where you adopt the body language behavior of someone who is confident until you eventually reach a point where you become confident, which usually happens after gaining experience interacting with more women.

Your body language is a huge factor in conveying confidence.

Typical shy guy body language involves one where your shoulders are slouched and chest indented, a slow indecisive walk, a head down with eyes gazing at the ground, and hands that are stuck in pockets.

Do the opposite of this to convey confidence with your body language.

Keep your shoulders up and your chest out, walk with pace and decisiveness, keep your head up so that you make eye contact with people, and keep your hands out of your pockets and rather to your sides.

This is how to fake confidence with your body language alone.

Doing this regularly is so powerful; it has the potential to attract women to you.

Women are supremely attracted to men who give off an air of confidence.

If you “fake it until you make it” in this body language department, you are assured to have more face-to-face interactions with women.

The more of these you have with women, the greater your confidence.

As you learn from your mistakes, you eventually arrive at a point where you are no longer faking confidence.

You are confident.

Once this happens, you have the know-how to talk to women without flinching.

Several of these women are sure to want to go out on a date with you if asked.