Choosing to stay in the friend zone without making any drastic changes to your behavior won’t get you anywhere.

As long as your behavior is consistent with what it has always been, you won’t get out of the friendzone with her.

Deep down, you never wanted to become her platonic friend, considering that you have liked her romantically from day one.

Knowing this, docilely waiting on her to change her mind about you and make you her boyfriend, only makes it ever so unlikely that you get out of her friend zone.

Getting out of her friend zone calls for making a bold change to how you behave.

Instead of perennially being so available to her for conversation and what not, become less available.

Have a life of your own, doing your own thing.

When your life is a constant adventure, and you don’t have the time to promptly respond to her text messages and phone calls as you once did, she takes notice.

She realizes that you are no longer as available to her as you once were, and she becomes curious about why.

She looks into what you are posting on social media.

Every time she visits it, you are on a new adventure.

She sees photos of you on a trip to an exotic location, looking like you are having the time of your life.

Another time, there are photos of you enjoying scrumptious food with friends at a reputable restaurant.

Over multiple weeks, she sees varied photos of you camping, hiking, biking, rock climbing, dancing, etc.

You are living your life and having a ball.

This is a far cry from what she used to seeing from you.

Gone are the days when you sat around at home playing video games, available to her whenever she texted or called, wanting to use you to kill her boredom, or complain about the latest drama with a random guy that is courting her.

Gone are the days when you came over to her place to keep her company when she felt lonely, but only as a platonic friend.

No, your life is so different now.

It’s so full of adventure, you have had no time to come over to her place to quell her loneliness like you have in the past.

Basically, you are no longer her emotional insurance policy.

Since you became less available to her and began living a full life, she has not been able to rely on you for emotional support.

When you have this lifestyle change that screams independence, you capture her attention and imagination.

In lieu of continuing to see you as a guy in her friend zone, she opens up to seeing you in a different light.

There is a side to you that you are now showing the world that she didn’t know you had.

She is intrigued by this side of you.

This intrigue stirs a desire in her to become a part of it, and in tandem, regain your attention.

All of a sudden, her text messages to you become more incessant.

After all, you are yet to respond to the text message she sent you last week, even though she has since seen you on social media on a new adventure.

At this stage, you are ignoring most of her text messages.

Every now and then, you send her a reply, but it is short.

She wants to have an ongoing conversation with you when you do reply, but you don’t have time for that.

Not like you once did.

Back in the day, you spent hours chatting with her all day long and into the night.

You don’t do that anymore.

Your responses to her text messages are scarce, and when they occur, you don’t get into a back and forth all-day-long conversation with her.

Once you adopt this behavior, you won’t stay in the friend zone with her for long.

She becomes so starved of your attention and envious of your new lifestyle, she is desperate to become a part of your life.

This desperation compels her to switch her approach.

Her text messages to you become flirtatious, as she intends to seduce you.

All of this happens within 3 months.

So long as you make these changes to your lifestyle and behavior, you transition from a guy she regarded as a platonic friend, to one she is romantically interested in.