The man has chosen to give you expensive gifts on his own volition.

He loves giving.

That is his love language.

Even though he doesn’t verbally ask for anything material in return, your acceptance of his expensive gifts is what gets him off.

That is his reward.

While you question whether you are being a gold digger in accepting his expensive gifts, keep in mind that being at the receiving end of expensive gifts isn’t an everyday thing.

When a man is giving you expensive gifts that you love on his own volition, it’s akin to winning a mini-lottery each time.

No one in their right mind, male or female, would turn down expensive gifts of value to them, especially when they are coming from someone who loves giving.

As long as you know that he can afford it, there is no reason for you not to accept these expensive gifts.

Keep this in mind as you cast judgment on yourself.

You aren’t tricking him into buying these expensive gifts for you.

Once again, he is buying these expensive gifts on his own volition, without any influence from you.

Giving expensive gifts excites him; he loves it.

Accepting these expensive gifts doesn’t make you a gold digger.

It means you are being smart in your receptiveness to his generosity.

After all, this won’t last forever.

At some point, he is going to move on to a new girl that he wants to buy expensive gifts for.

This is how guys with this mentality are.

They get off on buying expensive gifts for a woman.

With this mentality, the thrill can only last for so long.

Boredom sets in after a while, and he will move on to a new woman to buy expensive gifts for.

This means that this period of abundance in your life won’t last forever.

It is to your benefit to accept these expensive gifts, as there are no guarantees for how long they will keep coming.

As long as you are grateful and not entitled, you aren’t being a gold digger.

Even though it feels lopsided, there is actually a tradeoff.

Your acceptance, gratitude, and appreciation of his expensive gifts is the tradeoff he seeks.

As previously stated, he is also getting something out of this gesture.

Something that doesn’t require a stated price.

Your acceptance, gratitude, and appreciation for his expensive gifts is what gets him off.

That is his reward and thereby what he is doing all of this for.

So he is certainly using you for his own benefit.

His generosity isn’t coming from the kindness of his heart.

He is doing it to get off on your acceptance, gratitude, and appreciation.

For wealthy men like this, there is most likely already a female partner in their lives who doesn’t appreciate what they do for them.

A wife, for instance, who has long since taken his wealth and the life it provides her for granted.

He doesn’t receive the appreciation for the lavish lifestyle he has provided her anymore.

That is where you come in.

Your acceptance, gratitude, and appreciation for his generosity reinvigorate him.

You are someone who isn’t taking his generosity for granted, and it excites him.

Bear all of this in mind the next time you start feeling guilty for accepting his expensive gifts.

You are not a gold digger so long as you aren’t the one insisting he buys you these expensive gifts.

The interaction is not one-sided.

In accepting his expensive gifts, you give him something significant that is missing in his life.

Someone who shows gratitude and appreciation for him.