Eschew getting too caught up on what you remember from your time with her at the club.

In other words, you mustn’t go to this date with a bunch of expectations based on what you thought about her at the club.

Don’t forget that you were drinking at the club and so was she.

Alcohol makes people less inhibited.

This leads to misplaced chemistry when two people are socializing at a club.

A chemistry that was instigated by the alcohol consumption, as opposed to a chemistry fomented when two parties are clearheaded.

This is where you mislead yourself into thinking that the chemistry you shared with her at the club is bound to occur at the date.

It isn’t a sure bet.

Again, it was instigated by alcohol.

Not just that.

The crowd at a club has a powerful effect too.

You two got to feed off the energy of that crowd.

This contributed to the chemistry you felt with her at the club.

Thanks to a combination of the alcohol and the crowd, the fabricated chemistry that ensued led to you making out with each other at the club.

In the midst of all this excitement, you asked her out on a date.

Since then, you have had a few message exchanges with her, as you have looked forward to the upcoming date.

You must be careful that you don’t get caught up in your excitement.

The fabricated chemistry that was established at the club isn’t guaranteed to happen once again at the date.

There is a danger in drawing a conclusion that your upcoming date with her is going to be as electric as the time you spent with her at the club.

This sets a dangerous expectation, keeping you from having a realistic mindset about this date.

Real chemistry is established when neither one of you is influenced by alcohol and a crowd.

As of now, you don’t know whether there is real chemistry between you.

This is why you mustn’t go into this date believing that the so-called chemistry you shared with her at the night club is sure to occur again.

The truth is, you don’t know whether there is real chemistry between you.

All you have is what you had that night at the club with her.

Let that go.

Thinking about that night alone is enough to get your heart racing with how much you got along with her.

Do everything in your power to avoid repeatedly thinking about that night at the club.

Doing so influences your thoughts in a manner that puts you at a disadvantage and sets you up for failure.

Presently, you are about to meet her at a date in a totally different environment, which is bound to be a completely different experience from what you shared with her at the club.

In keeping yourself from mentally holding on to that night at the club, and the expectations there-in, you get to go to the date with an open mind.

The weight of expectations ruins a date, especially when it is based on a prior meeting that was influenced by alcohol and a crowd.

An openminded approach to this date increases the odds that at the very least, you have a good time with her.