Category Archives: First & Second Dates

First 2 Dates Went Great. Now He’s Gone Cold.

First 2 Dates Went Great. Now He's Gone Cold.He may have gone cold after the first two dates because he has lost interest in you.

He may have enjoyed your company but realized that the kind of connection he is looking for isn’t really there.

There may be a part of him that really believed that the connection he had with you during those two dates were sufficient.

However, at some point in time after the second date, he may have began to doubt that.

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How Long After A Good Second Date Do You Wait To Contact The Girl?

How Long After A Good Second Date Do You Wait To Contact The Girl?You should contact the girl on the day of or the next day and ask for a third date.

Don’t make the mistake of believing that you should wait for days or even a week or more to contact the girl.

So many guys fall prey to this mistake because they believe that if they were to ask the girl for a third date too soon they may come off as desperate and thereby turn the girl off.

This really has no basis in truth.

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Why Would A Guy Text Someone A Lot But Not Ask Them For A Second Date?

Why Would A Guy Text Someone A Lot But Not Ask Them For A Second Date?In one scenario, it is typically because the guy isn’t that interested in a second date.

When this guy is texting you a lot but not asking you for a second date, he is keeping you open as an option but isn’t willing to commit to that second date.

The first date may have been decent enough and relatively enjoyable.

However, he may not have gotten what he needed out of it. He may have enjoyed certain parts of the first date but not others.

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How Long After A First Date Before You Start Getting Worried About Them Not Calling?

How Long After A First Date Before You Start Getting Worried About Them Not Calling?Anywhere from 3 days or more after the first date is when you may start to get worried about them not calling.

However, there are some exceptions.

If your date had told you that they had something planned for the next few days, perhaps a trip somewhere with family or friends, then you don’t have to be worried about it, yet.

Your date may be genuinely unavailable for a number of days to a week.

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Is It A Bad Sign If A Guy Texts Less After A Date?

Is It A Bad Sign If A Guy Texts Less After A Date?It is sometimes a bad sign if a guy texts less after a date and other times it isn’t.

He may be showing you that he wasn’t too happy with how the date went. He may also be showing you that he is not quite sure of whether he should pursue this relationship any further.

If the texting has gotten to the point where he is no longer texting daily, this is a problem.

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