A couple of dates is too soon to tell that a person is going to be right for you.

Be careful not to be too wrapped up in how good he is making you feel.

When you are too wrapped up in how good he is making you feel, you risk losing your ability to be clearheaded.

This means that you miss early clues in his behavior that are possibly worrisome.

You are so caught up in how good he makes you feel, you conveniently ignore something he said or did that should have given you pause.

Next thing you know, you have become too emotionally invested in him too prematurely, leading to you letting him get away with bad behavior towards you.

He knows that you are emotionally hooked on him, and takes advantage of it.

This is an outcome that is possible when you let your emotions for a guy who is courting you get the best of you too soon.

A couple of dates with a guy is too soon to conclude he is the right one for you.

There is much to learn about him.

A guy is capable of presenting who he thinks you want to see on the early dates.

He acts appropriately, knowing full well that what he is doing is getting you to think that he is the right type of guy for you.

He goes all in with this act.

Demonstrating all the behavior he knows a girl like you likes.

Sadly, once he has you emotionally hooked, he deems it safe to reveal his true self.

If he is a narcissist or bad actor, he takes advantage of your emotions.

He has you wrapped around his finger.

Even though you realize he has changed, you are unable to let him go.

At this point, you are too emotionally hooked on him to end things with him.

Your mind is finding excuses for why he is behaving so differently from how he was behaving when he was courting you.

You tell yourself that you are capable of changing him and getting him back to who he was.

As long as you show him a lot of love and attention, he is bound to realize how much care for him, and this realization alone should stop him from behaving so rudely and irrationally towards you.

This is the mental gymnastics a girl in this unfortunate position undergoes to keep herself from accepting the reality that a guy was disingenuous with her from the get-go.

A couple of dates isn’t enough to know who you are dealing with.

You don’t know whether this is all an act or not.

Don’t get ahead of yourself right now.

Instead, be patient.

Take the time to get to know as he is courting you.

Observe his behavior.

Does he back up his words with actions, or is he all talk?

Does he have a good circle of friends, or are they all dysfunctional and abrasive?

A guy that surrounds himself with a circle of dysfunctional and abrasive friends is similar to said friends, even though he has been showing you someone totally opposite of this in his early dates with you.

As human beings, we are who we surround ourselves with.

It’s next to impossible to keep up an act over time.

When you give a courtship time, you see a guy for who he really is.

The real person always comes through.

Time gives you a chance to see his true character, what his life is like, and who is in his life.

All of this gives you a full perspective on whether this is the right guy for you.

You don’t get to this point without going on numerous dates with him over the course of several months.