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Luke is an experienced professional dating coach who has provided expert dating and online dating advice to thousands of clients for over a decade.

Do Guys Really Want To Be in a Relationship With One Girl, or Would They Prefer Being With Multiple Women?

Men don’t have anywhere near the amount of dating options women have.

To this effect, most men are just happy to find a girl they think is attractive and make her a girlfriend and future wife.

Many of them have a scarcity mindset.

He takes the first attractive girl that gives him the right amount of attention and wants to lock her down as a long-term partner.

He was just fine with your offer to pay for the 1st date.

Although you aren’t used to a guy accepting an offer from you to pay on a 1st date, there are guys who do.

They do exist, more than you realize.

In this day and age, there are men who will take you up on that offer, and much of it has to do with their worldview.

By developing a mindset that is about dating someone until you find someone better, you run a risk of getting stuck in this mindset.

Meaning, when you reach a point in your life where you believe you are ready to settle down, no one you encounter will be good enough.

That is because you spent years dating guys that you deemed temporary, believing that there would be better men as boyfriends in your future.

Every time you date a new guy and get into a relationship with him, you are already thinking that the relationship won’t last.

Sadly, these are long-standing red flags.

While he was courting you, some of these red flags were evident, but you chose to ignore them.

You were so taken with how good he was making you feel, you chose to focus on the good feelings as opposed to the red flags.

Now, you are 2 months into your relationship with him and seemingly seeing these numerous red flags.