Although it is easy to get lost in a group, you stand out to a guy when you talk and engage in conversation with him.

A mistake that girls in your position make is when they get quiet.

Being that he is close or socializing with the group, you are too nervous to talk.

If you get quiet, the guy won’t realize that you are there, or thinks that you don’t like him.

This is why it is paramount that you engage in conversation with him.

This is the start of getting him to notice you while you are in the group.

Make good contributions to the conversation so that he gets a perception that you are fully engaged.

This is where you are asking him good questions and relating to his responses with similar anecdotes of your own.

Sharing personal stories that relate to his responses creates a personal connection with him.

All of a sudden, this conversation has gone from relatively light to profoundly interesting.

To augment this sense of personal connection, get physically closer to him, and touch him lightly from time to time as the conversation ensures.

Touch him lightly on the arm, back, shoulder, etc., before releasing.

This foments a physical and emotional connection to him.

He is compelled reciprocate without realizing it by touching you back.

You make him feel so comfortable around you, he is the one choosing to get physically closer to you this time around.

Once he does this, his attention has moved away from members of your group, to only you.

That personal space barrier that everyone has to an extent to keep outsiders at a distance, has been broken.

This has so much to do with the positive body language you have been exhibiting, and the intriguing conversation.

You have now succeeded in getting him to pay a lot more attention to you than to the other people in the group.

Soon, you are overtly flirt with him by giving him compliments or joking with him.

Given that various members of your group are too shy or hesitant to do this, you have the upper hand.

You are standing out.

Guys love flirting.

Lighthearted flirting gets him excited, triggering a rush of dopamine in his brain, which infuses him with pleasure.

A good amount of give and take is required.

You mustn’t be the only one flirting and playing this game.

If he is responding, he is emotionally invested, which keeps him intrigued by you.

As the conversation is coming to a close, he is anticipating seeing you again, and is excited about it.

This is where he is asking you for your contact information, and is open to asking you out on a date in the foreseeable future.